alasia Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 hi, i got a text from my ex this morning saying "hope u and the kids are ok, i will be round after work if thats ok". he works til midnight so that will mean staying over. he spent the nite here on tuesday and we got on great,i made it clear that nothing sexual would be happening and wore my pjs all night,so we did share the bed but he seemed ok to just cuddle. anyway - hes got a habit of messing me around,since we split 6wks ago he has said he has feelings for me and may want to try again,then he doesnt,and then he says hes confused. this past wk though hes been more consistent in saying that he does want to try again but take it slowly. this is a really long winded way of saying im worried that he wont turn up tonite and i will look stupid. he spent 2wks saying he would stay over then making last minute excuses why he couldnt,and im sure it was just to deliberately mess me around. so what should i do tonight? its 9pm now and hes due here at midnight. should i text him and tell him to forget it, not contact him and see if he turns up,or what? please help.
carhill Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Has this really been going on for over 2 years? Sounds a bit unhealthy to me. Personally, I'd pass.
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