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General Question - What was your first post??? A response or your issue...


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Just curious. I have been a member just about a month and explained how I found the site and why I am here. I enjoy reading, hopefully learning, and am saddened by many of the issues/problems/questions people have. I also hope that I can offer some insight and good advise.

 

Every new post I now check to see if it is a new member or not. I probably am somewhat odd, as I think I found the site and immediately started giving my opinion, and posting questions or some insights, however I have never acknowledged, at least in a post that I have a "problem";).

 

So I imagine most found this site and posted to address their Issues and Questions. Is this the case? Was your first post a Question to the members or were you channeling your Oprah/Dear Abbey and dispensing advise????

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I first posted here back in 2004 trying to figure out how to deal with my wife's emotional affair. I came asking for advice...and stuck around giving it after that.

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When I first came , a year ago I was searching for answers about my H's infidelity- I lurked and read for a long time. Then started answering other's posts. It was a while before I addressed my own issues. Over time, I have asked questions & started threads.

 

I certainly never feel like a know it all but I do think my life experience gives me something to offer. On the other hand, Ive changed some long held opinions after learning things here - from the experience of others and perspectives different than my own.

 

To be honest, I think I am in general a more loving and empathetic person from having found this forum.

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My first post was answering a woman who was frustrated with her preemie. I had a preemie myself and felt a lot of the same things, so I posted about it and told her to hang in there.

 

The rest were relationship type stuff.

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