drummerprince81 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I sent a letter to my ex detailing exactly how I felt. I started it off by saying I didn't think she could be so cold and insensitive in the way she has acted but I didn't say it in any nasty way. I then went to say how I felt about her and my relationship with her, and why I was so confused. She messaged me and couldn't believe I thought she was cold...(this wasn't even the gist of the letter yet she focused on what affected her so I was kinda p****d off by that). She wants to be friends but I didn't reply. I didn't want to ruin any chances of us getting back together in this letter but I felt she needed to know that you shouldn't treat people so shabbily. Was this a bad idea? My letter was my final contact and now I begin NC. But do you think I need to tell her I don't think she is heartless, just that she HAS been. She never gave me a second chance, and I want it. I don't want her to think I'm angry with her.
badbrit Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 ......yet she focused on what affected her so I was kinda p****d off by that). And that is why you will never get back with her. Because you do not realise it is ALL about what affects her. SHE is the one who does not want to reconcille but you do not want to talk, discuss or even consider what is affecting HER!!! You want it to be about you and how you feel! DOH! Why should she reconcille with someone who is not interested in her or how she feels?!
Author drummerprince81 Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 Of course I care about how she feels. I always always put her first, but obviously this break up has confused the hell out of me and I am the one who got dumped. I don't know how she feels because she would not meet to discuss or talk about it. Therefore, I cannot possibly discuss how she feels. I'd give her the time of the day for anything so please don't think I'm being selfish.
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