lostsunsets Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Tell him first, if you tell him that you know he banged your sister, then it will seem like the reason was only for revenge (which the first time was, but the second time was because you enjoyed the first time). Give him some space. At least if you tell him, you will probably be the only adult in the lot of them. You have to confront your sister first. You can find out how many times your BF did her, and she will tell you why she let him. Hey, this isn't going to easy, but do you want to be a better person? It starts by owning what is yours.
Author Confused12345 Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 Yes, I need to bite the bullet. I just hope it doesn't get too messy
lostsunsets Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Write him a letter, so you know what you want to say to him. Then read it to him. Ask him to not speak until you are finished. This will allow you to focus on what you want to say and not on his response. At least till you get it out.
mr.dream merchant Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 You know, I never understood this. My GF's sister would **** my brains out if I let her get close enough to do it.
Pamcat826 Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 Sleeping with your BF's brother makes you a whore. Why is the brother looking you up after a couple of months, why does he think your his f)ck buddy, what is the brother thinking? He's thinking your sleeping with your BF's brother makes you a whore.
Trimmer Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 Well the first time I did it out of anger after the whole 'knicker' episode. So it was the second time that I knew I had messed up, but looking back it was obviously the first time it happened. Just a question: It took the second time to know you had messed up? You didn't think it was messed up after the first time?
Davey McG Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Obviously he'd never heard the old saying: "bros before hos"
Untouchable_Fire Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 I don't mean to sound rude but you're giving an opinion on the parts im not interested in. I know i'm wrong for doing this, and yes my relationship is bad, my bf can be such a **** but I know that's no excuse to behave this way. I want to know why his brother is hitting on me, knowing full well i'm with his brother, and even after saying no to him he comes back for more... I feel so ashamed.. IF you know anything about how some brothers compete... then you know what's going on here. He saw you had zero self esteem, and that it would be easy to score with you... so he did. Not because of you, but because it's a way to one up his brother. He keeps at it because that feeling of being better fades after a while. So... you honestly think your BF is cheating with your sister?
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Why did you sleep with his brother in the first place? how old are you is that the way adults deal with adult problems? what about pregnancy are you gonna get pregnant and pin this on your boyfriend? lie about the baby's parantage?
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