blaze5 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Okay so here's the scoop, i met this girl back in December and we really hit it off everything seemed to be going so great like most relationships start out to be but now she tells me that she wants to go to law school.. shes hasnt looked around yet but plans to go January 2010. She says she really cares about me and does want to be with me. The problem.. could be me.. i think, she wants to spend the summer with me like we had planned but when it is time for her to get her stuff together and leave, we dont really know whats going to happen, we both really want to be with eachother and if she goes and i stay.. were going to drift apart, and i really cant do long distance relationships anymore. The problem with going with her is that she is a work-o-holic. She said that she wont be able to take care of me and things wont be as great as they are now, shes going to be stressed and studying for a long time, and im not really going to get that much attention or see her that much. you get the idea.. what do i do?.. it feels like im in a lose/lose situation. I really love this girl and i dont want to lose her. Dont get me wrong im so proud of her and happy that she wants to pursue these things but if we part, im just going to be so sad.. and i just got out of a depression too.. im not the kind of person that can be friends with an ex, ive tried it and it just hurt me too much and i just cant do it. so i cant be just her friend... its either all or nothing pretty much. I love her alot but if i go with it and spend the summer with her, have a great time and all im going to be sad no matter what during it because i know its not going to last much longer because shes leaving.. the last thing i want to do is end it, and i really dont meet people that often, i feel really lucky to have met her.. anyways.. any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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