Flying Burrito Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I got home from the gym, checked messages. There were two from Amy's ex before me. He said he didn't know if I knew Amy was in an accident a couple days ago. He seemed confused about why I hadn't called to tell HIM. WTF? The 2nd message he said Amy said shes alright but they want to watch the stitches on her face for signs of infection. Then he started to cry. He didn't say what hospital and the dude didn't leave a number before hanging up. I want to pound something.
Thomas X Forever Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 You won't hear me admit this often.... This topic confused the HELL out of me.
rebmalove Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I got home from the gym, checked messages. There were two from Amy's ex before me. He said he didn't know if I knew Amy was in an accident a couple days ago. He seemed confused about why I hadn't called to tell HIM. WTF? The 2nd message he said Amy said shes alright but they want to watch the stitches on her face for signs of infection. Then he started to cry. He didn't say what hospital and the dude didn't leave a number before hanging up. I want to pound something. Um, why does he have ur number?? And why is he so stupid to think that u would tell him if u did know considering he's in the exes club too? Strange man... he should have given you some kind of info, I would want to hit something too.
Chessy02 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I don't think you should do anything. Could it be she is wanting a reaction? How did he get your number? Probably she is fine and ask a friend to call. Did you go NC on her? Tell us what transpired afterwards.
Author Flying Burrito Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 I know the guy. He's an idiot but no one would make something like that up. But I know Amy. If she wanted me, she would have called herself. This is fine. I don't really want to get involved in the drama. It's over. I'm not going to see her again. The best thing is for me to let it alone.
Author Flying Burrito Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 So I just got a message from the ex before me's wife. Perfect. More drama I don't want or need. It was more hateful keep your girlfriend away from my marriage raving than anything else. Also she said she was glad Amy's face will have scars so maybe she'll stop acting like she's so hot. That pissed me off. Why do women have to say sh*t like that?
Chessy02 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 FB, i don't think you should get pissed off. Could be Amy's ex's wife isn't aware that your relationship with Amy has taken a nosedive. Could be that before the accident Amy was still pursuing her husband (that is her ex). She is angry, not with you but with Amy. Now she has a scared face she would soon start calling you, but at the present she is probably ashamed to do so because she left. Hate to say, could this be the karma? If her face is pretty scared she would probably have a hard time onwards - depression; dating; et al. It now depends on you if you want her back now she is on her lows. Guess she didn't have compassion for you when she left you and you were going through your 'depression' of the loss of your relationship.
Author Flying Burrito Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 I wrote a whole response but it got munged. I could write out once more but you'll probably get more from reading the other thread. I dumped Amy. There is no reason for Amy to have shame about me. Whatever the deal is, Amy would never seek out the guy she dated before me. His wife has been insecure about Amy for years. There were other attempts to stir sh*t up before now, though the wife never tried anything with me directly before. Its unfair, I know, but hearing so much hate directed at Amy used to wear me out before. What is it about looks that makes women so bitchy? Chessy, I intend no offense, but I see you took a side against Amy suggesting its Karma that she had an accident. Why would you do that? What causes that sort of assumption? Its a sincere question. Its rather on the tame end of crap I've heard women say over the years, yet its a familiar theme.
Chessy02 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 No offense FB, I must admit i didn't read ur former post. Assumed that you got dumped and probably she was hitting on her ex. No offense intended.
Author Flying Burrito Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 Nope. No offense taken. I thought I made it clear that I'm the "bad guy". Which is to say, I called it off, cut Amy off, to have a decisive close to the relationship. Your mercy is a nice change from the dressing down I took from some others before. Unnecessary, but nice. I'm less upset than before, more in regard to the end of the relationship, but also about the past couple days. I want an end to the stress. The drama makes me miss Amy that much less.
Author Flying Burrito Posted April 6, 2009 Author Posted April 6, 2009 So this guy my ex dated before me called again. If I have this right, Amy asked him to stay away from her. It was a long, ranting voicemail about how ungrateful Amy is. He said was just trying to be a friend and Amy acted like he was a stalker. He said some other sh*t, like Amy can't be trusted because she's screwed him the whole time we were together and the ever popular, if I know what's good for me, I'll stay away from her before she ruins my life. I laughed listening to it. Dude needs better lies. Its so unfair to Amy but I am happy to have this crap out of my life.
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 So this guy my ex dated before me called again. If I have this right, Amy asked him to stay away from her. It was a long, ranting voicemail about how ungrateful Amy is. He said was just trying to be a friend and Amy acted like he was a stalker. He said some other sh*t, like Amy can't be trusted because she's screwed him the whole time we were together and the ever popular, if I know what's good for me, I'll stay away from her before she ruins my life. I laughed listening to it. Dude needs better lies. Its so unfair to Amy but I am happy to have this crap out of my life. You really think this guy and his wife is not telling the truth about your ex??? Sometimes what people say have hints of truth in them, even if you dont believe it because your in denial. Something happened with this guy that your not seeing clearly. Dont be so defensive. Think clearly, could amy have messed with this guy behind your back without you knowing it? ...Think about it, why would his wife call you and say something so strongly??? Something isnt right here. my thoughts are maybe something did happen to amy and this guy and it was emotional, and just maybe you dont want to see it, because your in denial.
LoveUrselfFirst Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 I got home from the gym, checked messages. There were two from Amy's ex before me. He said he didn't know if I knew Amy was in an accident a couple days ago. He seemed confused about why I hadn't called to tell HIM. WTF? The 2nd message he said Amy said shes alright but they want to watch the stitches on her face for signs of infection. Then he started to cry. He didn't say what hospital and the dude didn't leave a number before hanging up. I want to pound something. <~~~this is really my confusing expression, lol. Why is her ex calling you? Seems like a practical reason to start an issue with you. That would be childish on Amy's part to get her ex involved and if she really wanted to reach out to you about her so called "accident", she would have called you instead. Sounds childish to me. Don't get upset about it. Move on. And also I think at this point that you should change your number.
Author Flying Burrito Posted April 6, 2009 Author Posted April 6, 2009 Any upset I had about this before is because hearing that someone you love had an accident is upsetting. Yeah, the dude calling me to make problems is laughable. There is no question in my head the guy is making sh*t up. Except the part where Amy said to leave her alone... that I can believe.
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