unique77 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 my bf and i have been together for 2 yrs. he has a facebook and he has no pics of us. should i be mad about that?
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I know a lot of people will say this is stupid, but I think it's a valid concern for today's young people. How long has he had fb? Is he a regular user? Does he have pictures of other people? Do you have pictures of him on yours? What does his relationship status say? It can be likened to pictures is someone's wallet- if he doesn't carry pictures around, then it's nothing to worry about. But if he has pictures of other people but not you- or other girls- then maybe it's something you should consider.
voldigicam Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Discuss with him. Do you have pictures? A sneaky way. Get some pro pictures done together and ask him to post them. If he hesitates - well. He's got his hands in someone else's pants.
Blu-Guy Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 We have been togeather for 2 years and she makes it a point to make sure im not in any pics or there is no trace of me on her profile. She claims to be a private person. However she IS cheating on me so im going to say its a bad sign!
happy_go_lucky Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 I was in a similar situation as you; my bf and I took a few pictures together but he never put them as his profile pic and I was slightly offended. I wouldn't worry about it too much because sometimes guys honestly don't think it's a big deal or think about it at all. If it really bothers you that much, just communicate with him and let him know what's going on.
Dolly Parton Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Just tag him in a few pictures of you and him. If he deletes them, then you know you have a problem. If he leaves them be, then maybe he just never thought about putting pictures of you together on his Facebook. By the way, Facebook is a tool of the devil
Groovy Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 I'm a Facebook junky...it is the tool of the devil:p I have 180 people on my list, pics, music, I'm on and off it all day. I had to disable my notifications so my inbox didn't flood. And tell myself I have a case of Facebookitis... But here's the thing...that's me on Facebook. My brother who is married with kids took 2 months to update his status to married. So his wife changed hers to single and joked she didn't know she was free bird. I took a family trip and my brother said he would post pics. He never did. At least he changed his status to married and posted pics of them in the end including pics of the kids. It just never was something he wanted to spend a lot of time on and he works like 80 hrs a week. He just wanted his e-mail, his name and if people want to say hi great. My ex hated how I was on Facebook consumed by it. He thinks it's a waste of time. My point is some people really get detailed. Other people don't like to spend a lot of energy loading photos, tagging, updating status and just have a basic contact page up. Before you assume your unimportant mention it to him and see what he says. If he continues not to acknowledge your relationship than I would say he may not be into you enough. That's my 2 cents....
kylie1989 Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 my bf and i have been together for 2 yrs. he has a facebook and he has no pics of us. should i be mad about that? my boyfriend has a facebopok but he never metions me either and i get mad write back
Author unique77 Posted April 15, 2009 Author Posted April 15, 2009 thanx for the responses.. i appreciate them!!!! We arent even friends on facebook. we meet on myspace but he erased his page cause he got caught cheating on me that way. now it makes me wonder if he will cheat on me with his facebook. i asked for his password. he claims he doesnt know it.. liar i know he's lying. i have pics of him on my myspace but not facebook. cause he doesnt have any of me.
Groovy Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Ahhh, well now the story changes! He was cheating on you with myspace? Ditch him if he doesn't want to play fair. When I was engaged I even gave him my password and vice versa. It may seem crazy, but what are we hiding from each other anyway? In an ultimate relationship there is nothing but honesty with no secrets anywhere. Just curious and trying to sort the story out. How did you catch him cheating?
Mahatma Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Does he HAVE pictures of you? I am not a picture taker... I have been dating my girlfriend for over 10 months, but have no pictures of me and her... except for one picture that is of my feet on her head so that does not count at all haha. Now that you mentioned it though, I think I will get a picture she took of us and put it on my facebook.
ratzskinakie Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 1. become friends with him on facebook, 2. add photos of you two on your profile album, 3. tag him on those photos 4. maybe add commets to his messages/pics "i love you so much cutiewootie! etc..." 5. if he does not do any of above, removes tags, and he checks fb regularly, etc... than drama is bound to arise.
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