Turtlelover28 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 My ex and i are well over 24 and i just had a quick question. We broke up in aug of 08, and after that month we havent spoke excpet for him emailing me and telling me happy thanksgiving, and a merry christmas. After those holidays i havent heard from him. Well on wed March 25th i get an email from him, all the email said was hello. I replied back and said hello there. After the break up i havent spoke to him or emailed him. Why all of a sudden is he sending me that email saying hello? Was he thinking about me? Does he maybe miss me? Was he testing me to see if i was going to respond to him? After wed i havent heard back from him after i emailed him my response. So what would you make of this situation? Well that was a couple days ago, as you know yesterday was april fools day, i sent my friends an april fools day card but i didnt not put a message in the card, well i sent him 2 cards yesterday and he viewed them at around 5pm well at 6 he sent me an email and said thanks for the ecards but i didnt get to read your message probably cause it was an april fools card but anyway how are you doing, i replied and said there was no message and i am doing great how about you, after than i havent heard anything from him, what gives, i get mixed signals like he wants to talk to me and start talking again but he doesnt answer me how come? is he playing with my mind? does he want me back? I know he was online this morning so why didnt he email me back or something.
starryskies81 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I think you are reading into it a little too bit hun. He might just be trying to keep things on good terms. I do that with my ex's (well the nicer ones). If you really wanna know if he wants you back? You are just gonna have ask him. Do you even want him back? Or do you just like the idea of him wanting what he can't have
prettybaby Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 does he want me back? I wouldn't call his attitude super eager. It's lukewarm, at best. You, however, definitely sound interested in getting him back ... It seems to me like it wouldn't be in your best interest to give his pointless one-line e-mails the power to torture your mind like that. Chillax, he's only an ex after all. You sending him 2 April Fools cards wasn't innocent on your part. Don't put yourself in the position where you trigger some random response from him and then trip over it, wondering what he could have meant ... I honestly think you would not have heard from him again if you hadn't sent those 2 e-cards yesterday.
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