lonelypiscesguy Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 As a Pisces, I'm a sucker for a sweet story like yours! I hope you two crazy kids love each other well into your twilight years! Very cool...
melissa123 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Hey Tom!!! Im so happy for you!!! Great story!! How did you manage to get so lucky!!! Anyway im so so so happy for you! What a fantastic ending for you!! Best of luck!! xx
Knight_Ctrl Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Woah! DSM is back!, I'm really really glad to hear things are working out for you bro. Its good to finally start seeing good things happen to good people. Take care of yourself man.
AMM003 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Good for you man! That is nice to hear. Never read your stories but hey, nice news. As we mostly hear not so good news here. Lol. I agree with Caliguy. I think there is a possibility of reconciliation if your SO doesnt leave for another person. But not much to do if they do leave with another. Good for you again!
Knight_Ctrl Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I thought more about your post and decided to come back, I've got something else to say. I'm really ****in happy for you bro I truly am. But me, I have to give up. Every single day without my girl has been changing me into a different person. For better or worse....I don't know. But holding on to my anger for my friend that backstabbed me and took my girl is going to destroy me. I have to let that go, because that anger isn't going to get me anywhere but a bad place if I decide to act on it one day. And as for the ex herself.......After what she had done, I know even if my situation was like yours is now, I couldn't do it. I couldn't put myself at risk of having to deal with what happened again. I know the circumstances of my breakup were different than yours, which is why you're able to try and patch things up with her. And really, I havent been this happy for someone in a long time. You deserve this man you really do. In fact, I think ALL of us here on LS deserve something good like this to happen to then. Were all ****ing fantastic people. We just haven't found the right ones to know were fantastic yet, and when we do they'll never want to let us go. Use Thomas situation to prove that there is hope. Maybe not even hope of getting your ex back if you desire them still, but just proof as hope in general, hope that maybe someday we will fully heal and find that special someone. ****, even I have a girl thats intrested in me right now. Probably all that weight I've lost finally paying off Keep it real guys, stay strong. And god dammit tom i'm glad to see you back on here.
openbook08 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 As a Pisces, I'm a sucker for a sweet story like yours! I hope you two crazy kids love each other well into your twilight years! Very cool... isnt it a frickin nightmare bein pisces??!! i love these happy endings!
Author Thomas X Forever Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 First off thank you all, each of your individual posts have reached me and I appreciate them all. I was hoping to see you here Knight. You are easily one of my favorite people.. now we're just missing Iceman JB. And Melissa too my other favorite.. it's great to hear from you. Hope all is well... I miss talking to you Now, as for you Knight, you're right that the people here do deserve a good thing... all of you do... I didn't believe I did, but it just so turned out I got a good thing. Now though is the hard part.. I always thought getting her back would be the hard part, but keeping her is truly the hard part. Every inch of psychology and social science I know is being incorporated to make myself the best I can be to keep her. But Knight, yes my friend you must let go... she'll never be happy though. And I'm telling you THAT with my knowledge in psychology. She is flaky to say the least. Untrustworthy. Probably (if not DEFINITELY) lying to your EQUALLY untrustworthy friend, who is 90% chance probably cheating on her. Knight you're the only good one out of that whole situation. You are the man.
Aerorobyn Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Congratulations! That's a very sweet story, and I'm happy it worked out for the two of you and that you're both happy together again! I can only hope that I have that much success with my recent ex. It's highly doubtful though. He is lost and confused, and I don't think he knows what love is. He broke up with me saying that, "it was never about love. I always loved you and was always in love with you." Then, a week-and-a-half into me begging and pleading, he left it at, "I don't believe in true love or soul mates, so get on with your life".
Author Thomas X Forever Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 Youre a pretty girl Aero, you'll recover without trouble. You read about what I said in the other topic about using NC as manipulation/to automatically heal if it doesn't work. The win win thing. Enforce it. It worked for me.
andy2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 you are so lucky. for me it is now 2 weeks already...exactly same case as of mine...I am not sure during space period what gf/she use to do .... is n't that really difficult for her as compared to guy like us ? I am waiting for my gf.....
thegoodlife Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Congrats man I'm really happy to hear it worked out for you!
b10wick Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Hey Thomas, if possible could I talk to you on AIM? Would love to actually speak with you when we are both actually free some time to see how you handled certain things. Let me know, thanks.
Author Thomas X Forever Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 My aim name is Not ThomasX. Send an IM right now my friend. It says I'm offline but I'm just invisible. I hide from people to avoid IMs and stuff lmao. Toss me an IM.
b10wick Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 My aim name is Not ThomasX. Send an IM right now my friend. It says I'm offline but I'm just invisible. I hide from people to avoid IMs and stuff lmao. Toss me an IM. Sorry, got caught up and read every single word of that 21 page soap opera of Paperchase's lol. Send me an IM if you see me online, I will try to do the same if I see you on there as well. Thank you.
LostFocus Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I am happy for you. Congrats. Don't make the same mistakes twice.
not_a_happy_camper Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I mean asking her to be my girlfriend again. What steps should I take first before asking her to be my gf? And yes, it's another date next week as far as I know. I'm not good with this stuff though I feel like I'm gunna screw everything up heh... seriously. Tom I'd just stick with the dating for the time being, I know the reunion was emotional, and you're in a happy place right now, but play it cool. If you both rush in, you're more likely to make the same mistakes again, you don't want to do that! best of luck, really happy for you! And as was mentioned already above, this is no reason for everyone else on this board to get excited and hope it will happen for them. you're just one of the lucky ones!
Author Thomas X Forever Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 Hmm nope nevermind, no such thing as a happy ending. I saw this coming long before I posted this topic but damn, this happened faster than predicted. The worst part isn't it falling apart. The worst part is it not hurting yet, but knowing enough about the process to know in about 2 weeks it will hurt like hell. It's like a death sentence you're waiting for. Thank God I'm strong
exclusive. Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Congratulations!! The same won't happen for me because my ex, the dumper, initiated the no contact herself rather than me having the power to do it. However, I am not bothered anymore. Guess thats my happy ending Alas, Im happy for you.
Bernie Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I'm glad to hear that you get back Thomas. Be happy in your "new" relationship. Bernard
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