carhill Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 In another thread, I saw good guys, what a number of we LS men purport to be, equated with boring and/or predictable sex. IME, it is possible for a good guy to be uninhibited and adventurous sexually, as well as playful, but he just won't create the drama because he's sensitive to the feelings and needs of his partner. The key revelation for me was that I was attempting to attract the wrong kind of woman with my mix of traits. It wasn't those women's responsibility at all. They were following their path. Now, I wave to them on occasion but otherwise ignore them. Life on the divided highway So, I can add, topically, sexual adventurousness and lack of inhibition in meeting a woman's needs and fantasies. Also, though perhaps in marked contrast to other men who bond through sex, I find that I tend to bond through emotional and physical (non-sexual) intimacy and sexual desire grows out of that. It's happened often enough to not be a fluke. Unfortunately, this runs counter to the attraction process for some/many women, so hence limits the available potentials. Acceptance
Art_Critic Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 oh and i forgot: good oral skills Speaking ? or painting a fence ?
boldjack Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Confidence, commitment ,communication,caring, and capability.
alphamale Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Speaking ? or painting a fence ? you know what i mean Confidence, commitment ,communication,caring, and capability. i only offer that stuff on an "as needed" basis, especially the commitment part. i don't even know wtf capability means
carhill Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 IMO.. capability = situational awareness and the ability to analyze and adapt to different situations and challenges. Dynamic repackaging of one's skillset.
alphamale Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 IMO.. capability = situational awareness and the ability to analyze and adapt to different situations and challenges. Dynamic repackaging of one's skillset. then i would say its a sub-set of confidence or one of the components of confidence ...
boldjack Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Too right, Carhill. Ruthless to the f**king core.:D
boldjack Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Alpha, I would say that "capability" is turning "confidence", into actions.
moman Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 instability, immaturity, irritability, unwillingness to pay for everything no wonder I find all kinds of women but seriously, my willingness to say "no" has often caused very good things, and challenges women.
PlumPrincess Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I usually try to find out more discreetly if they are superrich. If I do it too obviously, I can't suck their money out anymore.
Art_Critic Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 i really don't have much to offer, sadly How are your oral skills ?
PlumPrincess Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 i really don't have much to offer, sadly I bet you have a girnomous porn collection with which you can impress the ladies.
GorillaTheater Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I bet you have a girnomous porn collection with which you can impress the ladies. This is a good point; I hear women love that stuff.
ColorCube Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 This is a good point; I hear women love that stuff. Some do, so I guess PornGuy has his porn collection to offer up
fishtaco Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Some do, so I guess PornGuy has his porn collection to offer up Not to mention bow-chika-bow-wow sound track on demand, and the ability to turn doctor visits into orgies.
alphamale Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Some do, so I guess PornGuy has his porn collection to offer up i highly doubt that impresses the ladies
Art_Critic Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 i highly doubt that impresses the ladies I guess that depends alpha.. Have you seen his porn ?
kizik Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I offer a lot. Intelligence, kindness, creativity, humor, good nature, patience, love.
PlumPrincess Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I offer a lot. Intelligence, kindness, creativity, humor, good nature, patience, love. Do you have money? Loads and loads of money?
kizik Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 That's what it always f*cking comes down to. No wonder I don't have a GF - you're all superficial materialists.
PlumPrincess Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 That's what it always f*cking comes down to. No wonder I don't have a GF - you're all superficial materialists. If I were you I would scratch humor from your list. You just failed my fun test.
kizik Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 You failed my nice test. I think you thought you were being tongue-in-cheek. In reality, you described "how it is"... women could care less about you if your bank account isn't over $50,000.
loony Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 You failed my nice test. I think you thought you were being tongue-in-cheek. In reality, you described "how it is"... women could care less about you if your bank account isn't over $50,000.Men always complain about greedy women. Not much has changed here...
kdark Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 You failed my nice test. I think you thought you were being tongue-in-cheek. In reality, you described "how it is"... women could care less about you if your bank account isn't over $50,000. Sounds like somebody got burned by a gold digger...
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