Jolena9 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I ended a 3 yr relationship with my ex in November bc I was having issues dealing with an eating disorder. I didn't tell him that though at the time and we ended fairly badly because I lashed out after he pressured me to let him know what was going on. However, we maintained contact and about a month later i let him know what was going on with me after I got out of treatment. Unfortunately, while home on leave on the other side of the country he went out on a date with a HS friend who had liked him for years (he knew it while we were together and always avoided her bc of that) and during the time he was upset at me he grew closer to her and even told her he loved her for a little while (he said he stopped bc it felt uncomfortable). She bought a plane ticket to fly out here for a week during this time he was upset at me. Now after a couple weeks of no contact since he told me that and randomly running into him, we ended up sleeping together and he told me he couldn't see himself ever not being in love with me and if he could get her to cancel her trip he would. I live in a fairly touristy area and he said that she was looking forward to coming out here for reasons other than him. He said he was going to tell her he was still in love with me when she got here and didn't want to pursue anything with her but was still going to make sure she had a nice trip yet he wanted space for the week she was here and then a little while after she leaves so he could clear his head before working things out with me slowly. I'm just scared I'm setting myself up to be really hurt by the whole situation by placing my feelings on hold for the next month basically and trusting him alone with a girl who would do anything to have him. Am I wrong for resenting him for keeping his distance while she is here? Its going to drive me crazy for the next couple weeks.
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