Can't believe it but I want my ex back

[EmperorR]

I know second chances are slim, trust me I've been here for while etc.

 

I met this girl after my ex fiancé an old friend who just popped up it seems at the right time.

 

It was the first time in my life I didn't care about looks, I guess you could say she was a little chubby, but anyways that's beside the point.

 

We lived kind of far from each other etc., but she was ok with it everything was going great, her mom loved me her family did even she did.

 

Then suddenly last week she just starts being distance, because I know about emotionally detach especially from women I was expectig and looking

for the worst. Then on Tuesday I get a text message how she still loves

me but were different people blah blah and that we should remain friends

for now.

 

 

Yep not even a phone call a pathetic text just like how my fiancé did. I just

texted her back allright, deleted her number. Blocked and deleted her from

facebook, msn, left work early and mailed her back everything she gave

me fed ex with signature authorization. As well included a letter tellng her

thanks for being there for me and it was nice knowing her and her family

and have a great life blah blah. I guess part of me is why, it's funny how she stayed with her abusive bf for over 3 years and all I did ia treat her like a queen yet I still get shafted time and time again.

 

Luckily I learnt from my last relationship certain things, I never memorized

her number so it's so easy not to contact as I deleted it.

 

I know the odds are slim, but gosh damn it I want a second chance. I know

maybe I don't deserve it fully as I never really opened up because I was

kind of scared and that's the one thing I hate.

 

 

Ughhh, We were great friends before but I refuse to be downgraded, I guess it hurts, because she knew everythig I told her how much it hurt to get dumped through text and yet she did it.

 

I know I know I deserve someone better, but I just want her back

[ByShine]

chances are if you are ever going to get her back, probably have to go through NC then see if she calls you one day.

 

that's just my guess

[lonelypiscesguy]

Good luck to you, bro. I am still going through the same thing, and it's only been 10 days. Why does 10 days have to feel like 10 months with this stuff? I guess it's because we care and love our ex SO. I drove away a woman with my selfish BS and it hurts so effing bad! We talked tonight, pleasant as always, called me dear, made me miss her more, stayed strong and told her I shouldn't have called and emailed and promised not to anymore and I won't. She said she was named the treasurer of her AA chapter, made me proud and wished I could be proud for my GF, instead of my friend that I have to have NC with now. Said she still gets angry when she thinks about the things I did. Got off the phone, actually cried a little! Haven't done that in a while! I miss her so much but I have to get over her so she can get over me. It's only fair. Now at least I know what to watch out for and work on for the next GF.

[CaliGuy]

Stop treating them like queens. Just treat them like a friend and you'll do fine.