4dviceJunki3 Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 So my girlfriend texted me today saying she doesn't want to be with me no more. I called her out on the whole April fool's joke because it's April fool's day today but she turns to me and says that she's not joking, she's serious. Now I don't know whether to fall for it or not because it doesn't make any sense. I haven't done ANYTHING at all for her to have ANY reason to do this and it's completely out of the blue but I keep calling her out on the joke and she keeps telling me it's not a joke. So I went off on her and aint talkn to her now. You think she's joking and I overreacted or would you consider this a stupid April fool's joke and I should maintain the freezeout on her til she realizes how stupid of a joke this was?
era Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 The only way to find out if it's just some cruel joke, is to wait till tomorrow.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 That's what ima do but am I the only person who thinks that this is possibly the worst April fool's joke you can play on someone? I mean when you prank people or play a joke on them, they're supposed to laugh afterwards cuz they were fooled, not be this pissed off and stressed out thinking contemplating whether they lost the person they love or not..like WTF!
Trialbyfire Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Is she 15 years old? If not and this is a joke, she's not only immature but very twisted. It doesn't speak well of her and if it's a joke, I think if I were you, I would break up with her. This is way too cruel and utterly tasteless.
Touche Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Uhm...I have a sneaking suspicion that this isn't an April Fool's joke at all. Sorry. If it is, you have a bitch on your hands. Play your own "joke" on her and tell her the joke's on her and you're done.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I was a bit shocked by your post. I have to agree with the above that it's very unlikely to be a joke despite falling on what should be the most lighthearted day of the year.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 You see that's what I was thinking but this girl loves me and I had done NOTHING wrong to her. Matter of a fact, she called me a few days ago from her work to tell me she misses me so that's why I said it's out of the blue. And that's why at first I was like she is definitely kidding but she took it so overboard that it's not even funny and I had told her that but that was before I froze her out and haven't talked to her but she hasn't sent me anything. I guess i'll just have to wait til tomorrow to find out. But if she is joking then she's freaking cold-hearted to joke like this. I'm a major fan of humor and pranks but this isn't funny at all. And yea she is 19 years old but she's acted very mature for her age..I guess til now. But hey if she is serious then I can care less at this point, I have no problem moving on because I wouldn't even wanna be with some bitch who would wait til this day to break-up with me and confuse the heck out of me to make me sit here and wonder if she's joking or not.
Echo009 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I know where you are coming from. My wife did the same thing. Told me she loved me right up till the end, then leaves and tells me she has wanted to leave for awhile. They are either lying manipulative you know whats or not sure what they want in life and therefore do what pleases them when it pleases them with no regard for anyone else.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 That sucks! The kind of good thing about my situation is , IMO,in my eyes, I carry a higher value than her, but not to mean that she's a bad person; so it's not exactly my loss if anything happens but what keeps me with her is that she's committed and trustworthy,..Ima just sleep on it, and I guess I'll find out in about 8-10 hrs lol..thanks everyone for ur opinions..appreciate 'em! =)
Trimmer Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I hate humor that relies upon humiliating or making a "fool" out of someone else for its comedic effect. Oh, ha ha ha... Look how funny it is to see someone suffer in confusioin!!!! I'm not a big fan of April Fools Day pranks and jokes. Unfortunately, you've got someone who either (a) just broke up with you out of the blue, or (b) thinks it's funny to inflict great pain and anguish upon you, as a joke. Niether one is all that great.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 Tell me about it dude, I find nothing funny about my situation right now. Anyways, here's the update so far: I didn't get a call from her in the morning or a text which is typical of her but I called her work and asked her what was going on and she said she's busy and she's with a customer and I asked her just tell me if it was a joke or not and she said "I'm busy I'll call you back" which I'm sure she wont. Now she's got me really thinking that she wasn't messing around which is fine still for me but I want her to have the nerve to say that to me, at least on the phone, so that I can move on. Also, I forgot to mention something. Yesterday when she was sending her texts to me with her little break-up tactic, she kept putting smiley faces and saying "LOL" or "LMAO" which she didn't do before (oh yea, she went through a similar phase before where she "lost her feelings" for me and acted this way but she was way more serious in her msgs on that). Anyways, I'll let you guys know how it turns out. Thanks again!
Thomas X Forever Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 You guys both HAVE to be like 16 years old. Are you? How old are you? And how old is she? Don't ignore this question. And no, it wasn't a joke. People don't joke about that. At least not any sane person. This was no joke. She was serious. I hate to play the devils advocate (not really) but how can you seriously think this is a joke? Women do stuff out of the blue all the time.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 I'm 24 and she's 19. And yea at this point I don't care if it's a joke or not, I just want to hear it clearly from her, on the phone or in person so that I can tell her off and consider it closure for myself to move on.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 Well guys it's officially over! =) I finally talked to her and she told me that she was "kind of serious"; I told her that is no such thing and she said she's kind of confused and blah blah she went on and on..this is where my expertise kicked in hehe, I stopped her and told her exactly in these words "sweety, i gave u ur chance and u blew it, ur loss not mine..too bad itll b too late by the time you realize dis on ur own but im sure ull b fine..it's been fun..peace" She hasn't tried to text me or call me since then but I'm glad for it; time to move on.
samsungxoxo Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Yes that's no way to joke around someone you claim to love. Good work, it's her loss anyways and you been so patient with her for an entire day. If it was me I would have be like ''Ok tell me now else it's over''.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 Thanks! Unfortunately I'm strong because I've dealt with this situation multiple times already. And as for her, she will realize it on her own eventually what she gave up. I aint saying I'm Mr. Perfect but I've got enough confidence in myself that I know I'm definitely worthy of being in a serious relationship; therefore I say, it's her loss not mine. Anyways, thanks again everyone for your opinions! Will be back to give updates on my dating status hehe! -Take care!
Cherished Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Well, you don't know if she'll realize it's her loss, because she probably doesn't feel that way. If she isn't into you, she isn't into you, so it is not a loss for her. She wants to free herself of you to make herself available for a guy who is more compatible with her, nothing wrong with that. She wasn't joking, it just happened to be on April Fool's Day.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted July 3, 2009 Author Posted July 3, 2009 Funny how she recently sent me a txt saying she misses me but I've deleted her number off my phone and just continue to ignore her.
asuman Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Funny how she recently sent me a txt saying she misses me but I've deleted her number off my phone and just continue to ignore her. lol You are our hero.
fani Posted July 5, 2009 Posted July 5, 2009 You're a ****in inspiration love!! Seriously! I think the majority of us here would kill to have your strength and your confidence! Well done is all i can say.
TaraMaiden Posted July 5, 2009 Posted July 5, 2009 (. . .) Unfortunately I'm strong because I've dealt with this situation multiple times already. That's a bit worrying.... why do your relationships lack staying-power? Are you telling us it's always their problem and you're somehow blameless? It's a question.... And as for her, she will realize it on her own eventually what she gave up. I aint saying I'm Mr. Perfect but I've got enough confidence in myself that I know I'm definitely worthy of being in a serious relationship; therefore I say, it's her loss not mine. See, now to me (and I might be wrong) that sounds a bit arrogant, because even though you say you're worthy of being in a serious relationship, for some reason it eludes you....
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