era Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 he was trying to be smooth with a compliment... translation = he was trying to be smooth with a line that he thinks will get you to have sex with him.
Author TigerCub Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 Some people just seep sexuality from their pores and can't help it. I think its in the eyes Well I do give him 'bedroom eyes' and lick my lips slowly, oh and sometimes I moan softly - but could that all really add up to 'you look like a sexual person' ? haha - Seriously though - of all the things I can't control - seeping sexuality isn't such a bad thing thanks for the help.
Author TigerCub Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 Given your own descriptions of yourself, and having to make efforts to "tone it down," I think you're wise to reconsider that. you think I should reconsider toning things down?
confused_2008 Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 translation = he was trying to be smooth with a line that he thinks will get you to have sex with him. ...and it's going to work too, isn't it? Look how much this has got you thinking about sex, and ultimately sex with him. Am I right? Anyway, there are definitely women I notice that I would say 'look' more sexual than others. There are so many things involved, like body movements, something in her eyes, etc. I can't really even describe it.
You'reasian Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 Well I do give him 'bedroom eyes' and lick my lips slowly, oh and sometimes I moan softly - but could that all really add up to 'you look like a sexual person' ? haha - Its all about the "bang you" eyes thanks for the help. Anytime.
Author TigerCub Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 .and it's going to work too, isn't it? Look how much this has got you thinking about sex, and ultimately sex with him. Am I right? Damn it! another clever move! Anyway, there are definitely women I notice that I would say 'look' more sexual than others. There are so many things involved, like body movements, something in her eyes, etc. I can't really even describe it. Thanks a bunch for the point of view.
Star Gazer Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 you think I should reconsider toning things down? No, I think you're wise to reconsider the bolded part: whether you're projecting something that suggests you're interested in sex. I think you might be.
era Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 'skanky girl' - definition = a woman who is disgusting, vulgar; filth, and one who is often considered sexually promiscuous.
Sibyl Vane Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 To me it sounds like he think you're a bit of a whore. At least he hopes anyway, wishful thinking and all that.
Isolde Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I don't like this--of course people that are attracted to one another are thinking of sex--it just seems out of line since he's implying things about your lifestyle that he has no business knowing at this point. Then again, it was in the context of a relationship/sex discussion, but that still seems kinda awkward to me.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Sounds like a line to gauge your reaction. An effort to see how easy it's going to be to get some and how freaky it'll be when you jump on. Exactly what I was going to say. Also think it's a stupid line. It comes across as desperate.
nicki Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I've had a few guys say this to me. It just means that they are hopeful that I will start talking about sex....and have sex with them. I would simply ignore the comment. If they are otherwise rude, then I'd say, "You'll never know." But really, I think it is much better for a guy to comment on how beautiful a woman is. Going straight to sexual talk without knowing you a bit better is not cool in my book.
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Maybe he mixed up his words and meant SENSUAL.
mental_traveller Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 It means he really, really wants to have sex with you You make him get hot & bothered. That's all. Doesn't mean you are skanky at all, it's meant as a compliment.
mental_traveller Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I really don't think it's wise to talk about sex during the first few dates. I wouldn't find that comment complimentary at all. That's why it's such a good idea to talk about it - so you can find out if the other person is sexual and is comfortable talking about it, or is more conservative and doesn't feel so comfortable talking about it.
sugarmomma Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Some people have sex appeal and some don't. I would definitely take it as a compliment. I am told that I am sexy often and I don't take offense to it. I can sometimes look at a man and can tell if he may be good in bed and maybe some men can sense the same thing about me. (Sometimes I am wrong but that doesn't make a man look less sexually appealing.) Like Brad Pitt, he is hellasexy and it does come out of his pores. If you got it, what do you do, hide it? I don't think so. I will not be young and sexy forever. Besides, time will tell if he just wants sex, then you can make a decision.
sultry33 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 ive been told i oozeee sex appeal.. im by no means offended i know it:laugh: just accept it as a compliment if you like the guy but only go as fast or slow as you want.. enjoy
semi spritzer Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Depending on how it was said but reading OP Sounds like he wants to see how far he can go or what you'll be open to. Personally I'd be offended if someone said that to me within a short time of knowing me. I wouldn't think much of him at all. Also I would not be discussing sex early on, gives the 'wrong' impression all round
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