TigerCub Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 So I've been on a few dates with this new guy and he's said that to me a few times. When we were talking about relationships and sex and stuff he said 'yeah, you look like a very sexual person' and so I asked what he meant, cuz to me, he's just probably meaning 'yeah you look like a skanky girl', but the thing is I don't. I was actually toning things down and trying to be good when we first met. I just don't know how someone looks sexual. we're all sexual. so when I asked, he just said 'I don't know, its just the way you carry yourself, the way you walk, I don't really know" so what does 'you look like a very sexual person' mean to you guys?
Enema Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 Sounds like a line to gauge your reaction. An effort to see how easy it's going to be to get some and how freaky it'll be when you jump on.
Trialbyfire Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 It's a line, Tiger Cub. It means he wants to "do" you!
2sure Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 He is sexually attracted to you - so you look like a sexual person , at least, to him.
CommitmentPhobe Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 He wants to you get out of your clothes. ...... sooner rather than later
Trialbyfire Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 This is a no lose line. If you look a little scandalized, he can backpedal and say "you're just so sexy-looking and gorgeous". If you're a gamer, you'll tag onto the line.
Author TigerCub Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 Thanks for the opinions. I guess I just wanted reassurance that it didn't mean 'you look skanky" not that I think sexual = skanky, but I just didn't know what that line meant to a guy. thanks
Author TigerCub Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 This is a no lose line. If you look a little scandalized, he can backpedal and say "you're just so sexy-looking and gorgeous". If you're a gamer, you'll tag onto the line. hehe...wow, that's pretty clever of him then
Lucky_One Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 I think it means that he likes the way your tits are hanging out of your shirt.
Star Gazer Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 I really don't think it's wise to talk about sex during the first few dates. I wouldn't find that comment complimentary at all.
Enema Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 ^^ Example of someone that doesn't look like a sexual person.
PlumPrincess Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 A friend of mine a while ago said I might come across as unsexual to men. Oyyyyy!!!!
lovesniffles Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 I'd say it could be a few things: 1. Just a line to get into your pants. 2. He was trying to see if you would be open to discussing sex this early on. 3. He is a moron who didn't know what to say so he blurted out something he thought would seem "cool". 4. He really thinks you seem sexual. In that case I'd say maybe it's something about your face. You can dress anyway you'd like and still come across as sexual. Maybe it's a habit you have like biting your lower lip. But my guess is that since he couldn't explain himself... he's just full of crap. lol.
Jersey Shortie Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 It means he wants to get you in bed. The line is lame a hell though.
loser101 Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 in the end of the day what matters is whether you want to have sex with him. would it offend you if he described you as an 'asexual person'?
Star Gazer Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 ^^ Example of someone that doesn't look like a sexual person. I've been told that I look like a sexual person... by guys who were just out to get some a$$. No thanks.
Trialbyfire Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 My personal favourite: "You're such a sex kitten."
fishtaco Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 It means you're sexy and he's a dork. There are better ways of saying that. But evampr18 has the right attitude. If you want sex with him, tease him and get it on. If not, take it as a free compliment. I don't think this is bad enough to get offended over.
bayouboi Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 ^^ Example of someone that doesn't look like a sexual person. :lmao:
You'reasian Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 So I've been on a few dates with this new guy and he's said that to me a few times. When we were talking about relationships and sex and stuff he said 'yeah, you look like a very sexual person' and so I asked what he meant, cuz to me, he's just probably meaning 'yeah you look like a skanky girl', but the thing is I don't. I was actually toning things down and trying to be good when we first met. I just don't know how someone looks sexual. we're all sexual. so when I asked, he just said 'I don't know, its just the way you carry yourself, the way you walk, I don't really know" so what does 'you look like a very sexual person' mean to you guys? It means that you look like you have the capacity to be a very erotic person - like you really enjoy your sex and IMO that's a good thing.
Author TigerCub Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 in the end of the day what matters is whether you want to have sex with him. would it offend you if he described you as an 'asexual person'? Its just that when I'm with my friends and stuff I'm totally the dirty minded girl who isn't offended by anything. In the past I have had my one night stands and stuff, but with this guy I was REALLY trying to tone all that down and not come off that way so when he said that, on more than one occasion, it just got me thinking 'what the hell is it that I'm projecting?' and what does he really mean by it. It just seemed like a weird thing to say cuz the majority of us are sexual. I just don't know how I look the part when others don't.
Author TigerCub Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 It means you're sexy and he's a dork. There are better ways of saying that. I totally agree that its a dorky thing to say if he was trying to be smooth with a compliment...but whatever, its all good..
You'reasian Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 It just seemed like a weird thing to say cuz the majority of us are sexual. I just don't know how I look the part when others don't. Some people just seep sexuality from their pores and can't help it. I think its in the eyes
Star Gazer Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 Its just that when I'm with my friends and stuff I'm totally the dirty minded girl who isn't offended by anything. In the past I have had my one night stands and stuff, but with this guy I was REALLY trying to tone all that down and not come off that way so when he said that, on more than one occasion, it just got me thinking 'what the hell is it that I'm projecting?' and what does he really mean by it. Given your own descriptions of yourself, and having to make efforts to "tone it down," I think you're wise to reconsider that.
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