12ape Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 Well, I went out to a club with some friends who invited me out not long ago, about a month. One of the girls was there who I talk to (friend), and I kind of like her in that way. Well, we talked and had a laugh and just me being myself really and after a few lovely beverages and a few friendly jokes, my friends were also there with her so I kind of was comfortable around all of them. My friend lets call him “M” suggests that she should kiss me, we had a laugh about it and we were all kind of “under the influence”, she kind of… Kissed me, with her mouth open.. Meaning she wanted more than just a “peck”. Me being the idiot, I just pecked her on the lips and smiled. As time progressed, and after a few more drinks down my neck (and hers) she sat next to me and was “depressive” and stated that I “hate her” I said I didn’t hate her at all, in-fact I like her a lot. So we had a few hugs, and she went off somewhere to see her friends/toilet. She then came back, sat next to me again and conversation continued between friends and friends of friends. So it was quite a social, drunken event. She was talking to my best-friend “J” for a bit, he got up and said to me “ Sam, kiss her” and “Her to kiss me”, so I turned around, looked at her, smiled… And HEY I went for it! So there is us making out for about, 20 minutes… For me, it was like a new connection between us, but I’m not sure on her behalf, as she was far more drunk than me. Should I get my hopes up? Or just face the music? The thing is, that I hear from her best-friend that she kisses guys at parties and that she only does it with people she knows, or likes. Well, over time I have met up with her and the group of friends i've been with, and she keeps is casual between everyone. I have been invited to pubs by the "friend and the girl", reading festivals, and a party this saturday! We have been txting and keeping in contact daily for about a month now, and we just seem to have a laugh and talk about random stuff which we like or do haha. Well, I was invited to a party this Saturday by her. So I pretty much said I was up for it and i'll see her there etc.. As the txt's are going back and forth she says stuff like " Please come Saturday, and get really drunk with me "... What does this mean? Just a good time? or trying to hint something else? I don't know, I'm a dude i'm crap at this - haha! I know that the party is a little distance from where I live, and it would cost alot of money to get a cab back home, and a nuicence for my dad to pick me up from the party. So I said to the girl I like "How are you getting home from the party?" She said : "I'm walking home, I live 20 mins from there! How about you?" Me: " Ah, I don't know really might have a problem getting back". She said : " I'll ask my mum if you can stay round mine if u want" Me : " Sure, that will help alot :)". So pretty much, i'm playing the field with her.. Is this a good vibe? or am I looking too much into this? As she might just be giving a helping hand...? I have been single for about 2 months now, as I have come out of a 4 year long-term relationship. Is this false feelings for me? BUT, when we are at the pub or the club and it's time for me to leave.. I do the friendly thing and hug all my friends goodbye.. So I hug my friends say bye etc.. then the girl I like, stands up and pecks up.. So im like, Bye, take care *Gives her a kiss and a hug* She's done this twice now, but when we are both under the influence. But we KNOW whats going on..? Any pointers or vibes shes giving me? Thanks, Sam M
Mahatma Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 First off, why do you call yourself "12ape" (rape) ? Does she know you just recently got out of a four year relationship? This could make her weary about a relationship with you.
Author 12ape Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 First off, why do you call yourself "12ape" (rape) ? Does she know you just recently got out of a four year relationship? This could make her weary about a relationship with you. 12-ape and secondly, she already knows about the past relationship. But I believe that this could affect a potential relationship with her.. I'm not sure.
Mahatma Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 12-ape and secondly, she already knows about the past relationship. But I believe that this could affect a potential relationship with her.. I'm not sure. you say 12-ape, yet you have no space. But fine, what does "12-ape" mean? If I was to like a girl, but found out she had just got out of a 4 year relationship a couple months ago, I would probably steer clear of a relationship for a while. Anything serious anyways.
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