plane addicted Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 I figured I would end things since we both had been talking about it and he seemed to drop some pretty heavy hints that he was not willing to commit to me in such a complex LDR. I could remedy the LD thing but not right away. So I officially ended it. I thought he felt too bad for me to do it himself. Is this selfless or selfish or just stupid? I thought I was making him happy but now he is sad, but I think we were going to anyway. He has pulled away and that speaks volumes.
Beautiful Inside Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 guys dont realize it that it hurts us when they pull away and become distant to us thinking it would be easier for us in the end....when will they ever know!!!
Author plane addicted Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 I feel bad but at the same time I think he should have said, "I want to be with you, and I can't quit my job but you are free, so please come over". But he did not, he has not made me feel cherished or uber important because he is an emotional toddler. I think that's why I feel bad, he doesn't understand where he has gone wrong and I want to fix it for him.
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