Dorada234 Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Sometime ago, I had a casual relationship with a dude I met at work.Over time I started to have some feelings for him,and I told him so(I know-big mistake).I thought since he was not interested in a more formal relationship(he told me after I told him about my feelings) he would want to break it off,and he didn't. Long story short,he treated me like crap,the last time we met up,I told him off,and he broke things off. Some days after the incident,he kept pestering me,and I wanted some answers.He basically told me that he didn't like me,and that I was the worst thing that happened to him. I find this delusional since he treated me as if I wasn't important to him. I'd like to know why he continued to call me,and to have sex with me,if I was so horrible to him,and he was not satisfied.Of course,this question would be better answered by him,but we're not talking,and I wouldn't even know how to contact him,since he changed his number. Any thoughts?
GAchasen Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 Because men will do anything for sex and that includes pretending to like someone. Sometimes there are no answers to why men and women do what they do, or how they treat people. Sometimes it's best to just move on. I also think when they say things,...such as I just want to be friends, I don't want a relationship, I don't like you or anything along those lines; take it for what is...They mean it. -there is no underlying meaning behind it. MOve on... to someone who is worth thinking about!!!
Mahatma Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 This story you told seems to have many gaps, but from what I read... ...he is probably thinking "what the hell" too. Why did you have sex with him while he was treating you like crap?
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 Because it sounds to me like you screwed up the original deal - NSA sex. Which was all he wanted in the first place, and was all he wanted even after you developed feelings. You had to go and get those feelings involved and apparently it made him very angry. Of course he's going to keep calling you - he wanted sex!
Author Dorada234 Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 This story you told seems to have many gaps, but from what I read... ...he is probably thinking "what the hell" too. Why did you have sex with him while he was treating you like crap? During the relationship,he didn't treat me like crap. It was during this one day that we got together,and I saw him for who he really was.
Author Dorada234 Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 Now,I understand that I should have used better judgement. I should have taken the initiative and dumped him first.
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