SophieA Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Has anyone ever tried "cooling off" a bit while you were LD? Do you think backing off and dating others would mean the demise of your LTR? Or do you think it could lead you to be closer in the end?
Island Girl Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Has anyone ever tried "cooling off" a bit while you were LD? Do you think backing off and dating others would mean the demise of your LTR? Or do you think it could lead you to be closer in the end? For us it would have spelled the end. Neither one of us is good with jealousy and possessiveness (meaning we both HAVE these things going on). If either one of us was dating other people it just would have been maddening, threatening, and destructive. With the distance it would have led to HUGE insecurities on both sides.
Rollercoasterr Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 We would never even consider it. If things got so bad to where we thought we needed to cool off and see other people that would be the end. There's no use in that, and we're both very very jealous people.
Bearandsue Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Yeah right that wouldn't be cooling off, that would be breaking up. I am waaay jealous and so is he. So just each other works for us. we wouldn't want it any other way. I think its enough to stress about with the distance and all, then to add other people into all that would be madness.
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