Ilovehim Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 When I hear about people who "have fallen out of love". The way they talk about it bothers me because I know that is how my ex must feel. And they kind of all feel the same..guilt, pity, etc. I dont want to always be the girl who he forgot and whose heart he broke so badly. While he meets someone else who gives him sparks and butterflies. Also its weird but ALWAYS when I hear that someone has fallen out of love, ALWAYS, they have met someone else or they have their heart set on something else. I was so heartbroken when my ex left, I cried so much to him. I'm the girl whose heart he broke so bad but whom he doesnt love and forgot. By forgot i dont mean literally, but simply he doesnt want to be with me that way. So why am I wasting my time? I almost wish I could freaking show him Im over him just because I feel like crap being the "broken hearted girl" while he is out there with someone else having butterflies and all that crap he "lost" with me. But instead Im just oing to let it go, forgive and well cant really forget but just let it go I guess... Life can be so unfair sometimes!
wheresmysunshine Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 I can totally relate to this feeling! I was also left by my fiance for a co-worker and feel like he doesn't have to go through the pain and torture I do because he is having a wonderful courting stage with this new girl. I can't even move on from him because my Love was real and genuine. I wish I had someone else to run to and feel all those butterflies for like he is doing right now. It sucks, it hurts, i know how you feel!
hopesndreams Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Also its weird but ALWAYS when I hear that someone has fallen out of love, ALWAYS, they have met someone else or they have their heart set on something else. Allow yourself to fall out of love with this guy, it's a process and it's doable...and it's the only thing that can set you free from him. Think of all his bad qualities, you know there are many, quit thinking about his good qualities and also, picture him with his new girl and picture them together loving it up. Yeah, it hurts to imagine them together but sometimes that is what it takes to rid yourself of your feelings for him.
EmperorR Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 Also its weird but ALWAYS when I hear that someone has fallen out of love, ALWAYS, they have met someone else or they have their heart set on something else. Allow yourself to fall out of love with this guy, it's a process and it's doable...and it's the only thing that can set you free from him. Think of all his bad qualities, you know there are many, quit thinking about his good qualities and also, picture him with his new girl and picture them together loving it up. Yeah, it hurts to imagine them together but sometimes that is what it takes to rid yourself of your feelings for him. Exactly how I got over my ex fiance who cheated and left me, just imagine her with that scum the anger took over realize how she treated meand sudenly felt better.
Recommended Posts