bac Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 I was on a date with a guy who I like. He has planned a great date but it turned out bad because of him. I personally do not care for details related to the date except I want the guy to feel good about himself. What shell I do if a guy does smth like that? All I want to make him feel good about himself and do not sweat the small stuff. Do I need to cut the date earlier? Anyway we were kind of upset. Do I need to tell him smth like ....everything is fine? Do I need just to forget the stuff and say about that nothing?
xpaperxcutx Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 If you refuse to give details, I won't know how to actually help you. And what exactly did you mean by making him feel good about himself? Did you mean sexually or something else?
Chicago_Guy Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 I was on a date with a guy who I like. He has planned a great date but it turned out bad because of him. I personally do not care for details related to the date except I want the guy to feel good about himself. What shell I do if a guy does smth like that? All I want to make him feel good about himself and do not sweat the small stuff. Do I need to cut the date earlier? Anyway we were kind of upset. Do I need to tell him smth like ....everything is fine? Do I need just to forget the stuff and say about that nothing? What??? I don't understand anything about your post.
D-Lish Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 ??? I have no idea how to respond because I have no clue what you are referring to.
Lindarose84 Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Kudos to the first person who can decipher this post. OP please clarify or provide more details.
RecordProducer Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 If the guy was nice to you and you like him, let him know that the details of the date aren't importnt and you'd gladly give hi another chance. This is of course if the date went baddue to technical things (e.g. you went on a picnic and it started raining), not if he tunred out to be a jerk. You said you both were upset. Can you provide more details?
Bejita463 Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 What is "smth"? "Something" I believe. That is about the limit of my ability to decrypt that message.
Lucky_One Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Wow - thanks. That abbreviation went right over my head (along with the rest of it). I substituted it when I re-read it, but it didn't help.
Author bac Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 I have meant social dating skills. He was not a jerk at all. I believe everybody can do or say smth stupied on date. I do not clarify what it was because it was a small stuff in general and everybody could do smth stupied in his own way. Anyway after that they feel insecure about themself. And when I was talking that I wanted the guy to feel good about themself I meant to feel secure about himself.
shockandawed Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 "Something" I believe. That is about the limit of my ability to decrypt that message. An example of the effect that "over texting" is having on our society.
2sure Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 OK - sp the guy was so nervous he was self conscious and his lack of confidence basically ruined what could otherwise have been a great date. What is a girl to do? Well, its nice and refreshing that you are willing to acknowledge his lack of confidence....and maybe overlook it temporarily? If you like him and know that buried beneath his date insecurity...is a fun, smart, romantic guy....after a few dates he may relax and be charming.
Lauriebell82 Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 I have meant social dating skills. He was not a jerk at all. I believe everybody can do or say smth stupied on date. I do not clarify what it was because it was a small stuff in general and everybody could do smth stupied in his own way. Anyway after that they feel insecure about themself. And when I was talking that I wanted the guy to feel good about themself I meant to feel secure about himself. Can you please spell out "smth"? It's confusing me. Anyway, as someone else said we do not know what you are referring to. The "small stuff" is what made the date bad and we can't really give you advice if we don't know the situation. From a general standpoint, I'd say to let the guy know you still want to see him again (if you do) and have fun with him. Like 2sure said, he may loosen up once he relaxes.
prettybaby Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 How exactly are we supposed to respond if all you give us is some vague text message lingo about basically nothing?
Lucky_One Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 everybody could do smth stupied in his own way. Yes. Everyone can.
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