Athena Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 Is That right ? I'd say you tend to fall in the smallest minority of Narcissits on LS. And I don't think that any N's would stick around long, unless we were in awe of them...
Author wannawanna Posted April 5, 2009 Author Posted April 5, 2009 I wouldn't say that I WANTED a big fancy story, just a BETTER one. Thank you so much for your comments.:) Mr, I don't put that much time into a "nobody" who needs an intelligence/entertainment boost. Get a life. As for everyone else, you are right.. I'm making steps with a counsellor as to where to go from here. As much as you would like to otherwise believe, it is not all my fault. My husband has been no picnic for years. Thanks again and I'm strengthening up to prepare for a likely separation. I've never been happy here and it's time to move on.
lostsunsets Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 So what changed from the "I do". Were you always this jaded and callous? You sound tough as nails.
seibert253 Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 Mr, I don't put that much time into a "nobody" who needs an intelligence/entertainment boost. Get a life. As for everyone else, you are right.. I'm making steps with a counsellor as to where to go from here. As much as you would like to otherwise believe, it is not all my fault. My husband has been no picnic for years. Thanks again and I'm strengthening up to prepare for a likely separation. I've never been happy here and it's time to move on. YES IT IS ALL YOUR FAULT! You're using your husband's shortgivings as justification for your bad behavior. There is never any justification for cheating on your spouse. If things were that bad, you should have left your husband before you decided to betray him. If you have any ounce of respect left in you, you owe it to your husband, and to you, to leave and file for divorce. Not withstanding the things you don't like about him, but he deserves someone better than you.
2sunny Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 i'm sorry for your husband's loss - and i'm only referring to the funeral...
bentnotbroken Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 Mr, I don't put that much time into a "nobody" who needs an intelligence/entertainment boost. Get a life. As for everyone else, you are right.. I'm making steps with a counsellor as to where to go from here. As much as you would like to otherwise believe, it is not all my fault. My husband has been no picnic for years. Thanks again and I'm strengthening up to prepare for a likely separation. I've never been happy here and it's time to move on. Apparently you haven't been happy anywhere. Here, in your marriage, or in your own skin. As long as you don't deal with the issues that come from within, you will always blame others for your horrible life choices and the consequences of those choices. Anyone who would blame their own child for the crap they have found themselves in, has some major issues. You say your H was no picnic for years, was it worth possible losing your children over? Why didn't you leave? Why show no concern now? You are a bit selfish:rolleyes: in your belief that where you find yourself at this moment isn't your fault. This post is just in case your aren't a troll, cause that order is still.
hopesndreams Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 I don't know what to do at ths point. May I suggest putting your head down the toilet and flush...
boldjack Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Wanawana, Keep em comin babe!! I can take a LOT more than this!! If you're goin to try to get under MY skin, you're gonna need a crowbar, I got a hide on me like an alligator.:laugh::laugh: Seriously, if you want to write a better story, and don't have the money for classes, just go back through past threads and see what some of our more creative posters have written and change a few words. Trolls...can't live with em, can't drop em in Lake erie.:D
jmargel Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 I don't know what to do at ths point. It's been over 2 weeks ago that my husband had to attend a funeral back home and I stayed home with our two kids. I took my kids over to my mother's will I saw my boyfriend. My damn husband lied about what time he was coming home, so I did not have time to clean the sheets and that's how it all began. My husband detests dirty sheets and he asked me what was on there and I told him I was cleaning some of our stuff while on the bed. Unbeknown to me, he kept those sheets aside and did a semen test on it and now because of that we are on the rocks. I told him it was probably his own damn semen because he relieves himself in our bed sometimes. So now, he's going to get a DNA sample on top of it. I tried to get the sheets and he has them locked up or hidden somewhere. What other excuse can I give for this? I have even blamed the baby. Guess you should have swallowed (assuming this is a troll post). If not, then you have some serious emotional problems that need to be addressed by a counselor. Stop lying to your husband and yourself. Your children deserve so much better than this.
Bryanp Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 I am sorry but it is clear that you just don't get it. It is bad enough to be cheating on your husband behind his back and exposing him to STD's; but to be screwing your lover in your home and in your marital bed shows total distain and disrespect for your husband, marriage and relationship. How would you feel if your husband was screwing another woman behind your back in your home and in your bed? Only a person who would have a broken moral compass would do such a thing in their own home. How can you not understand this?
Dexter Morgan Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Mr, I don't put that much time into a "nobody" who needs an intelligence/entertainment boost. so I take it you don't put that much time into yourself then.
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