phillipreed678 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Please, Have pity on someone has trouble with this. Does anyone see trouble with people that have sex before while you date ? Don't you see some trouble from that ? I'm just asking.....I hope I'm not being to immature. I'm really just asking opinion, thats all.
bean1 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Do you mean sex with you before they date you? Or do you mean someone who has had sex in the past (with someone else) before you started dating them? How old are you?
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 You're asking if people have a problem with the person they're dating not being a virgin? Well, I sure hope you're a virgin or you're applying a ridiculous double-standard. Yes, it's immature. And no, I'd rather be with somebody that has SOME experience. I'm not against dating a virgin, but I'd rather not be teacher if I can help it.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 It'd only be a problem for me if she was a ho before I met her, to be more exact within a 3 year time span prior to me meeting her.
CandyGirlXO Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Hmmm everyone I know has had sex before, my question to you is how old are you? Its very unlikely that you will marry your first, unless of course you wait until marriage.
Cherished Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Are you the 37-year-old comic book store owner who is a virgin who I was set up with back in January? (Well, honestly, your parents own it, you let your lie slip on the 1st date since you told me over the phone that you actually own it, then let it slip that they actually own it and you "run" it.) I'm sorry you're hurting. You need to find another woman like yourself with absolutely no experience with the opposite sex. You will have to settle for a woman not so good looking, but you're no looker yourself. YOU CAN DO IT. Please stop posting depressing blogson myspace. Your friends are giving good advice. Now get out there and get some!!! The therapy advice was good, too! You have provided my girlfriends and coworkers a lot of laughs as they are always looking for bad date rehashes. The "37-year-old virgin who works in the comic book store" setup date has gotten a lot of wear. Oh and please don't mention how great your sister is on your next date about 60 times. She'll start to think, like I did, that you have the hots for your sis.Gross.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 The only hesitancy most people would have is wondering if the other person is tested. Most people don't have problems with a non- virgin unless it's even religiously or culturally related.
Cherished Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 or if you're 37 years old and not religious at all! Sorry if it's not you, Brett. If it's not, please elaborate.
MN randomguy Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 You're asking if people have a problem with the person they're dating not being a virgin? I think that's what OP was asking. I'm going to assume so. Well, I sure hope you're a virgin or you're applying a ridiculous double-standard. excellent point. However, it may be the case that OP is a virgin. I think no matter how non-PC it is to say this, I think there is something in guys that wants to be a girl's first. Something territorial. Yes, it's immature. And no, I'd rather be with somebody that has SOME experience. I'm not against dating a virgin, but I'd rather not be teacher if I can help it. This is one woman's opinion. In my opinion it would be a plus, but, entirely unreasonable to expect at my age. How old are you OP? If you're young and a virgin and it bothers you. I don't see what would be wrong with trying for a virgin.
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