Is my sex life doomed?!?!?! Is there anything I can do..

[theraven]

Originally posted this on the "Sexual and Reproductive Health and Practices" Forum, but I didn't quite get the responses I would like... I'm not sure if I will get the responses I would like on this forum either, but I thought I would give it a try

 

 

So I'm 17 years old... I have been having sex with my girlfriend for about a year now. I would say roughly 50 times or so. We have had some good sex, but MOST of the time I ejaculate waaaaay too early. What I'm really having trouble with is ejaculating right as I get inside her. I will stick it in and just sit there for like 7 seconds and BAM! I ejaculate. What the hell?!?! It's really starting to affect our relationship too. I have a feeling if this keeps happening we will be done. And i love her and don't want that to happen. Everyone says just to relax and not think about it. Well I try that and it doesn't work. Maybe I'm not relaxing enough. I don't know. We have had sex for a good 15 minutes probably about 5 times. But other than that, I am ejaculating way too early. It's embarrassing!!! Like I said earlier, my main problem is ejaculating right as I enter and not even getting to hump any!!! I'm not worried about lasting an hour or anything like that, I just want to STOP EJACULATING 5 SECONDS AFTER I GET IN HER. It's the worst feeling when I see that look on her face after I cum. She doesn't get any pleasure out of it and It suckss... That's really it. If I can get going, I can last long. But its hard to get going when I cum right when I get inside her.. Please help. Is there anything I can do? Or should I just never have sex ever again in my life.

[somedude81]

Try not having sex for 5 years then tell me if you think your sex life is doomed.

[rchrd881]

Paxil. 10mg daily.

[Storyrider]

Just masturbate right before sex and get the first one out of the way. Then you should at least last two minutes.

[O'bama]

get the first one out of the way.

You're such a romantic.

[D-Lish]

A few things you can do.

 

Firstly you should know- you're 17... this is normal.

 

Secondly- masturbate before you meet up- a couple times.

 

Thirdly- have her go down on your first- make you cum with a blow job first. Then, you can return the favour to her (which will make her happy)... and by the time she has orgasmed, you will be ready to have sex again. You won't cum right away because you have already cum.

[Storyrider]

You're such a romantic.

Necessity is the mother of invention.

 

Of course, with an ideal situation a couple will be in sync and mutually satisfied, but I've come to believe this is relatively rare. If you happen to have that with someone, nothing to sneeze at.

[O'bama]

One guaranteed remedy that seems to have been overlooked is to ice the balls for 5-7 minutes. But be sure to avoid chilling your wiener.

[Storyrider]

Isn't there some numbing stuff you can apply that can help make it last longer?

[O'bama]

Isn't there some numbing stuff you can apply that can help make it last longer?

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/01/070124104555.htm

[Storyrider]

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/01/070124104555.htm

Participants were also issued with a stopwatch so that they, or their partner, could measure the time lapse between penetration and ejaculation.

 

On your marks...get set...

[mental_traveller]

Jerk off one or more times before you meet.

 

Get somewhat drunk, that often makes it take longer to come.

 

Think of Rosie O'Donnell while you are having sex with your gf, there is no way you will finish if you are doing that!

[carhill]

Try not having sex for 5 years then tell me if you think your sex life is doomed.

:D

 

OP, you're frigging 17. You can get it up more times in an hour than I can in a day. Just go with it. Make sure you pleasure her. You do have a tongue which works, right? Bet it never goes flaccid or ejaculates quickly