twicebitten Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Ok, my ex texts me today how "I" am selfish for not helping him dig-up dirt on his ex-wife (who he's seeing again) so that he can end it w/her and have "a piece of mind ..."!!! WTH!!???? I'm REALLY starting to see things much clearer now ... 1. HE is SELFISH to NOT tell her the truth so she can move on & be HAPPY! 2. He is narrissistic to only care that he's not the "bad guy" here!! 3. He doesn't DESERVE someone like me that KNOWS what real love is & how to give/recieve it!! 4.HE is even more SELFISH to lead-me-on & play on my emotions!! What a PIG!!! XO - Twicebitten -
Meaplus3 Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 I'd simply ignore the text. He sounds like a real winner. Mea:)
Citizen Erased Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 To be honest, he sounds a few tinnies short of a slab. A few french fries short of a happy meal. A few crumbs short of a biscuit....
popey Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 sounds like you've got him figured out. ignore him.
You'reasian Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Ok, my ex texts me today how "I" am selfish for not helping him dig-up dirt on his ex-wife (who he's seeing again) so that he can end it w/her and have "a piece of mind ..."!!! WTH!!???? Wouldn't loose any sleep over it. Just move on
Author twicebitten Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 It does help to know even others that don't know him think HE's quite possibly NUTS!! Helps to know that I'm NOT!! LOL! Because frankly, his texts/requests/insults are utterly baffling to me ... they DO makle me feel as if I'm NUTS & just reading them wrong!! Like maybe I'm illiterate all-of-a-sudden!???? LOL! XO
sedgwick Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Tell him it's "PEACE of mind" and be done with it.
JLee26 Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 find a picture of a shovel and text it back and tell him dig it up himself. and then follow it up with another picture of him with a subject line of "worst dirt of all". maybe he will get the message.
Biggie25x Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 I think you have to question his maturity and character as a person. Anyone who does this to someone has no feelings or empathy for anyone else. You would be better off without someone like this in your life. If he does it to other people he could do it to you.
Author twicebitten Posted April 6, 2009 Author Posted April 6, 2009 OMG!! I've not been on boards due to last weeks HORRIBLE turn-of-events!!! K, day after my book spreads came out ... my ex found out & then starting sending me texts ... calling SCREAMING at me (I hung up) ... he left a message on my machine threatening to send VERY personal info & some posts about him on a don't date him site (that I did not post) to ALL my contacts ... IE: Literary agent ... publishers, etc.,!! I was terrified so my GF took me to the PD & I filed a report! They call him & warn him not to contact me further, etc., Well, I wake up next morn to an email from said agent (I gave her a heads-up the night before) saying she received two emails & was forwarding them to me for PD & she'll delete them! OMG ... he literally SMEARED me ... saying I was not fit to be around CHILDREN (I'm an author) & then continued to write personal stuff (of sexual-nature) between us, sprinkled with innuendos & lies!! It's all so HUMILIATING!!! So went back to PD next day .. they were NOT happy that this continued (after they called him) so they filed a formal complaint, etc., Today the Detective called to say that he's calling him again today to give him last warning!! If there is anymore contact to ANYONE associated with me that he'll be arrested! I do feel a bit better, however I so fear that the "other shoe will drop"!? Meaning my publisher will receive this total CRAP email from the PR, marketing dept or something & I'll look like an idiot for having associated with someone like this!!!?? Do you think this kind of thing could potentially tarnish my GOOd rep!?? Anyway ... I could use some encouragement/support right now!! THANK YOU all for your valuable input(s)!! XO - TB -
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