Black Widow Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Hi, I'm a lil embarassed at having to come to a place like this, but I need advice I guess. Long story short - I just can't find a man good enough for me. Without bragging, I am 38, not very overweight and look pretty darn hot after three kids and a skiing accident that left some of my face paralyzed. Yet all the men I date turn out to be either losers, mommys boy's or just flat-out cheap. I earn $48k a year from my aroma therapy business, and get some child support from the childrens no-good father's, so I expect a man to be able to match that, if not exceed it. Also that is my money that I worked darn hard for, not anyone elses who can't manage their finances. I'm an old-fashioned girl at heart, and believe it is the man's duty to pay for dates, gas, gifts etc, if he wants to see me again. Yet just th other week I went on a date set up by a 'friend' (I suspect she enjoyed her little game) and at the end of the evening he turned around and expected me to pay for my baby-sitter. The nerve! He asked me out! There is one man I am attracted to, but unfortunately he is married. I think he might be available soon though because he mentioned his wife is ill, but I'm not going to wait forever. Plus I don't think he is very wealthy. :eek: Also I have my dog, who comes with me everywhere, including my bed at night (just for cuddles of course!). A man who wants to date me must be ok with that, my little baby will always be first in my heart - after all he has never lost his job because he was 'depressed' or gone to Hooters behind my back. Men say they like dogs, but I think they are often threatened by Mr Pickles. To be honest I'm getting frustrated. I just want a man to share my life with, to look after me and treat me like a Princess and whisk me away to Paris and raise my children. Is that too much to ask? Oh and he must be tall too. Advice welcome. Where should I be looking for Mr Right? I'd try dating sights and the internet but I don't want some loser (no offence to the men here). Bars and clubs aren't my scene - too many players and jealous women. Ideally I'd like someone who owned a succesful business like I do, but I never seem to meet any that aren't short, fat, bald or gay. No offence to any of the men here. Help!
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 No offence to any of the men here. Shouldn't this read, "no offense to any of the women on here"?
GorillaTheater Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 This isn't a BAD troll post, but perhaps a little over the top. I'd tone it down a little next time; I think you'd get more bites that way. Good luck!
CommitmentPhobe Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Shouldn't this read, "no offense to any of the women on here"? Hmmm you were somewhere towards the top of my suspect list for this alter ego... Guess I'll have to move you down a bit
a4a Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 48k .......that is it? I would expect a equal money earner to want to date her. Try boosting your revenue and see if any "good men" are interested then.
Meaplus3 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 There is one man I am attracted to, but unfortunately he is married. I think he might be available soon though because he mentioned his wife is ill, but I'm not going to wait forever. Plus I don't think he is very wealthy. :eek: By all means this is not a good way to find Mr. Right. To be honest I'm getting frustrated. I just want a man to share my life with, to look after me and treat me like a Princess and whisk me away to Paris and raise my children. Is that too much to ask? Oh and he must be tall too. You will be much better off if you drop the fairy tale perception here. Life does not work this way most of the time. Now as for meeting Mr. right, If bars and the club thing are not you thing.. how about an activity that you enjoy? Plently of available decent men have hobbies.. and it's good way to meet someone. Also, coffee shops, book stores just to name a few. Most important get yourself out there. Mea:)
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Hmmm you were somewhere towards the top of my suspect list for this alter ego... Guess I'll have to move you down a bit Me? I don't hide behind alter egos to manipulate LS members. That's left for the inept.
serial muse Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Hmmm you were somewhere towards the top of my suspect list for this alter ego... Guess I'll have to move you down a bit Fun game! I've got a list of possible suspects for this alter ego, too... Edited to add: I never suspected you for a minute, TBF. Not your style!
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I've also got a list of suspects and none of them are previously stated female members! They're all previously stated male members with princess entitlement attitudes. Thanks serial_muse. You're right. Not my style!
CommitmentPhobe Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Me? I don't hide behind alter egos to manipulate LS members. That's left for the inept. Yeah I know it's not you, just the whole princess thing and the fact that it's your polar opposite
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