Juno Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 A couple of weeks ago my ex started to text me after going nc for 2 months. I ended up seeing him a few days after we began talking again. I saw him only one night, to talk. There were hugs, and a few kisses exchanged. I felt better about not having him in my life and decided to resume nc. He's been texting me everyday since. He wants to see me. He wants me to come over, or him to visit me. Undoubtedly he wants to have sex. That switch is in off mode for me as far as he is concern. He has yet to express any regret for the way he has treated me since we broke up. He has not express any endearing thoughts or emotions. So, when he asked me to visit him this weekend I suggested that he would have better luck if he said something sweet to me. You know....catch more flies with honey adage. His response to me was: I do not negotiate with terrorists no matter how sexy they are.... I am so pissed, not at him but at myself for engaging him again after I was finally adjusting to and accepting no contact. It just this type of smart ass comment that really makes me despise him.
Truly Lost Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 You didn't respond did you? If you did I hope you said, "F**K YOU!!!
Tryng2Trust08 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Damn girl, I think you have to move on and do NC....as hard as it is. I know the feeling where someone won't even aknowlodge they have hurt you, let aone apologize for turning their back on you. It doesnt seem like he will...my ex bf is the same way and it sux BAD. He turned his back on you, and that's something really hard to deal with and now he's making rude comments! Go NC and don't be mad yourself, you gave him a chance, and he's blowing it.
Author Juno Posted March 30, 2009 Author Posted March 30, 2009 OK so that little exchange was yesterday, and I have not responded. Just a little while ago he texts me again, asking what I was doing and if I would come over to visit him tonight. His behavior is becoming annoying and unattractive. I mean he has asked me to visit literally everyday day of the week since last Wednesday. As his schedule changes, he expects me to drop whatever I'm doing and run over to see him. He is making it ever so obvious that his cork is about to pop. I hate that this final stage in our relationship is nothing more than a mere opportunity to release some pent up tension. I have not responded to his "terrorist" comment, (even though some of my friends feel he was just trying to be humorous), nor will I respond to his repeated attempts for a visit. He has the capacity and wit to say such horrible things to me, yet lacks the capacity for compassion and ability to express a kind word. I'm at a point where love turns to hate!
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