mis_moi Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 well dont know if i should be asking this here but iv been going to the MOVIES with this guy and i wouldn't call it dating coz we just go to the movies then go for a drink and talk(well i do most of the talking) anyway i was thinking that the guy was asking me to go to the moves with him coz we live in paris and they arent a lot of people here that like going to c the movies in english ..anyway so iv been getting these msgs (singes) i was thinking that the guy really likes me but he just wont make his move.and im not the type of girl that will jump all over him am a bit of old fashion when it comes to flurting.but i dont know if it has to do with the age coz im 25 and he is 30 so and he keeps asking about my last guy a lote dont know y .and when i told him that the longer i stayed with a guy is 3 months he was surprised..(knowing that i really dont like having boyfriends i mean i just want one guy to keep not a bunch that i go with for some tile then to another one)........so for the past 2 months we do only moves and a drink after it so i dont know coz its getting a bit boring now..and now he asked me if i was free on the week-end so i dont know should i say yes or no ?
Lucky_One Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I don't understand either. You told him that you have never been with a BF longer than 3 months and that you don't like having a BF, and you wonder why he is afraid to make a move? If I were a guy and liked a girl, I wouldn't make a move on her either. Why would I want to get nexted in a few months? Do you even LIKE him? If you are bored going to the movies and for drinks, then why are you even considering this weekend?
Author mis_moi Posted March 30, 2009 Author Posted March 30, 2009 no i didnt tell him that i dont like having a guy i didnt mentioned it wat i meant is that the reason i mentioned it its coz im in 2 long term not short term so i dont like wasting my time with guys that r here only for a short time u know what i mean.and yes i do like the guy but about the movies i like moves but doing it every week is kinda 2 much ....
blk86 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 no i didnt tell him that i dont like having a guy i didnt mentioned it wat i meant is that the reason i mentioned it its coz im in 2 long term not short term so i dont like wasting my time with guys that r here only for a short time u know what i mean.and yes i do like the guy but about the movies i like moves but doing it every week is kinda 2 much .... it just seems like you gotta make the first move by saying yes to his offer for the upcoming weekend and instead of movies, ask for dinner and a walk around Paris. It seems like he barely knows you so he's sheltering his self. There got be other things you two have in common beside movie and drinks. If he denys dinner, then you know he's just interested in a friendship, obviously meaning just movies and drink friend.Just a thought...
prettybaby Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Sounds to me like you're confusing the hell out of this poor guy. You are obviously DATING and he is quite clearly interested in getting closer to you. Let me get this straight: guys aren't into the whole friend thing when they're out with a woman alone. They don't go to the movies and then get some drinks without being interested in you. They don't ask about your past relationships unless they're considering you romantically. The guy must REALLY like you to be going out for 2 months and not even getting any hint of hope from you. I'm guessing you don't hold hands and don't kiss? Only accept his new invitation if you're attracted to him. If not, then at least make it clear to him that you are not interested in starting a relationship with him.
Author mis_moi Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 u got it right about the holding and kissing thing we dont well im waiting for him to make his move.......but cant seem to happen
prettybaby Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 u got it right about the holding and kissing thing we dont well im waiting for him to make his move.......but cant seem to happen Think about your own body language though. How do you come across? You may not realize it, but your own behavior may be making him doubt too much to initiate any physical contact. Don't just wait there for it to happen if you want something to happen. You are free to make your feelings a little clearer if you want things to move forward. I'm pretty damn sure he wouldn't reject any moves from you. Guys don't go out with a girl for 2 months unless they're attracted to her.
Author mis_moi Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 ok well ill c him and ill do my best thank u to all of u
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