nana yaw II Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 is it looks? personality? i'm at a loss...:confused: why am i never checked out?
Lauriebell82 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Nice breasts, flat stomach, nice butt...if you are walking by and just looking at you that is... Oh big nice smile also!
prettybaby Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Self confidence. Unless you're talking about online profiles? Then big boobs + cleavage lol!
Lucky_One Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I would guess that people get checked out because of looks first, unless they are being loud and drawing attention to themselves in some fashion. No one can tell what my personality is just by looking at me, so I can only assume it is my looks. But to honest, I don't typically know if I am getting checked out or not. We went to a neighborhood pub last night, and the bartender (a friend of ours) jokingly told my BF he'd better be good to me because there was a guy over there checking me out. Neither my BF nor I noticed. So you could be getting checked out more than you think, and you just don't know it.
Lauriebell82 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Self confidence. Unless you're talking about online profiles? Then big boobs + cleavage lol! Yeah I was going to say that too! Not a lot of people are going to look at you if you are all hunched over and pissed off/moping.
2sunny Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 i disagree with alpha... from what i've noticed - it attitude and confidence. i can tell a person catches my attention from far away - even if it's dark - by the way they carry themselves/movement. it's all about what the body is saying. has nothing to do with seeing the person up close.
alphamale Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 i disagree with alpha... from what i've noticed - it attitude and confidence. and who has most of the "attitude & confidence"??? could it be the people who are both good looking and intelligent?
Star Gazer Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Nice breasts, flat stomach, nice butt...if you are walking by and just looking at you that is... Oh big nice smile also! Huh? The OP is a dude, so you must be complimenting...yourself? Or you're now swinging the other way?
janey815 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 70% Looks - 30% confidence, the way you walk and present yourself
crosswordfiend Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 its mainly how one looks... and the outfit, and the haircut...
IcemanJB Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 If she has the type of hair I like, I'm much more likely to check her out. If we lock eyes and I like what I see, she will be checked out during a discrete moment. I agree with the body language statement too.
Chicago_Guy Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 70% Looks - 30% confidence, the way you walk and present yourself I agree with that. Sometimes an average-looking woman gets a lot of attention because she smiles a lot and looks happy and friendly.
Trimmer Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 is it looks? personality? i'm at a loss...:confused: why am i never checked out? Nice breasts, flat stomach, nice butt...if you are walking by and just looking at you that is... Oh big nice smile also! Yeah, nana - are you showing off your breasts and butt to their best advantage?
Lauriebell82 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Huh? The OP is a dude, so you must be complimenting...yourself? Or you're now swinging the other way? Oh haha, didn't know it was a guy. And it was just a joke.
Lauriebell82 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Yeah, nana - are you showing off your breasts and butt to their best advantage? :laugh: HAHA wasn't talking about me. But I've seen it done.
Lauriebell82 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 70% Looks - 30% confidence, the way you walk and present yourself Oh yeah, def. That's what I have seen the most from my experience.
Star Gazer Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Oh haha, didn't know it was a guy. And it was just a joke. I was kidding.
Lauriebell82 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I was kidding. Yeah, funny. What I said was true most of the time anyway, guys DO check out girls with those assets. They check other things too, and this is not all guys, but come on that's what usually happens.
Star Gazer Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Yeah, funny. What I said was true most of the time anyway, guys DO check out girls with those assets. They check other things too, and this is not all guys, but come on that's what usually happens. Lighten up LB, and quit the PMs. Thanks.
Isolde Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I get far more attention when I'm happy and not stressed out.
treyfan88 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Self-confidence, usually. Or just having a unique look--be it fashion, hairstyle, tattoos, etc. It's not about how big your boobs and ass are, or how big your muscles are. It's how you carry yourself. If you're smiling, approachable-looking, etc. you're more likely to get checked out by other people.
Lizzie60 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 is it looks? personality? i'm at a loss...:confused: why am i never checked out? I haven't read the other answers.. but here's mine: it's definitely looks.. this is the first thing we notice.. we don't have a serious/deep convo with everyone we meet.. so if I notice someone.. it's definitely his looks (or something in his general look) that attracts me. My advice... I don't know if you're good looking or not.. but I say SMILE.. you have no idea how much it makes someone looks much better.. it's true.
mehim Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 looks, confidence, smile. you dont have to have big boobs or a big butt to get noticed thats for sure.
Author nana yaw II Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 I get far more attention when I'm happy and not stressed out. isn't it just new age psychology that says that?
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