Tryng2Trust08 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I should have never replied to his text messages he sent last week. I was trying to be nice, he seemed upset about his job and it backfires on me.I was feeling soo much better, I can't believe I let this happen again. I told him we should take a break from communicating, I was nice about it, saying thats whats best for me right now. He has been the one initiating communication. He went on to say I was panicking and overreacting. I kept my kool said no, I felt thats what I needed right now. Things escalated for some reason and he went on to say I have been harrassing him for 3 months since we broke up. He has texted me,I was moving on and he is talking about his job, me being nice I answer. He of course put this on me again, I think he is dillusional! He even went as far as to tell me I am worth the work of a relationship and he was impressed because my behavior seemed to have changed. Yeah because I am MOVING ON and realize he isn't for me. Does anyone have some insight for me...he makes me feel like Im crazy....do you think he was trying to make something work out with me and got upset that I said we should take a break in communicating? O well...I should have known better. And you know what the real kicker is....He said I was the one who texted him last week first. I think he is crazy...wow.
Flying Burrito Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 There's no way to know for sure but from what you said, this sounds like crazy-making to me. "He went on to say I was panicking and overreacting" "He even went as far as to tell me I am worth the work of a relationship and he was impressed because my behavior seemed to have changed." You already know these two sentences made no sense together. You're right. They make no sense. Crazy-making. Why beat yourself up for making a choice? You said what you thought. You were straightforward. You did the right thing for you no matter the outcome. Now you keep moving forward.
Truly Lost Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 He's feeling rejected and responded abrasively. He wasn't expecting for you to say you wanted to take a break from communicating. If someone said that to me, I would be offended too. I don't know the reason for your breakup, but if you don't want to talk, then don't. Its not necessary to tell your ex that you don't want to communicate. Silence would have been the best way for you to handle the situation. So now you know.
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted March 30, 2009 Author Posted March 30, 2009 He's feeling rejected and responded abrasively. He wasn't expecting for you to say you wanted to take a break from communicating. If someone said that to me, I would be offended too. I don't know the reason for your breakup, but if you don't want to talk, then don't. Its not necessary to tell your ex that you don't want to communicate. Silence would have been the best way for you to handle the situation. So now you know. Yeah you are right. We broke up a couple months ago. I just thought I could be his friend, but I just can't, I tried multiple times. I have feelings for him still that I want to get rid of. I guess I just wanted him to know how I felt, but maybe silence would have been better. Plus he had ignored me before and it felt ****ty. Augh, Im just frustrated.
twicebitten Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 You don't live in MI do you!!?? LOL! I'm just kidding, but your ex sounds EXACTLY like MINE!!!! Mine sent me a text stating he was filing something with the PD for harrassing HIM, when HE's the one that contacts me & breaks NC!!! They must BOTH be dilusional!!! WHY do they act like this!?? XO - Twicebitten -
You'reasian Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 If the guy is crazy, its self-explanatory. If not, either he or someone is messing with you. Your best bet is to tell them to stop. Sorry - best of luck.
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 You don't live in MI do you!!?? LOL! I'm just kidding, but your ex sounds EXACTLY like MINE!!!! Mine sent me a text stating he was filing something with the PD for harrassing HIM, when HE's the one that contacts me & breaks NC!!! They must BOTH be dilusional!!! WHY do they act like this!?? XO - Twicebitten - Ok...thats scary, I don't live in MI, but kinda close, lol. My ex also threatened with taking me to court for not leaving him alone, he said I have harrassed him for 3months. I have harrassed him? If I was harrassing him why wouldnt he block me from text messages? Why would he keep contacting me. Then he jokes with me saying he would never take me to court, etc... He has contacted me SEVERAL times in those months and also has asked me to send him nude pics. Im thinking he has some kind of problem. IDK, I gave him the benefit of the doubt, but I think he has something mentally wrong at this point. Im really done this time.
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 No...all text messaging, I havent seen him in months and havent talked on the phone. In the middle of our texting, I actually picked the phone up to call and he refused to answer, just to clarify some things. Why do u ask?
You'reasian Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 No...all text messaging, I havent seen him in months and havent talked on the phone. In the middle of our texting, I actually picked the phone up to call and he refused to answer, just to clarify some things. Why do u ask? Face to face is the best.
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 Well, I know, bu we never had the opportunity for that. I am finished with him though. Seems like too many games, I tried to be his friend and that does not work, so Im moving forward, not backwards.
You'reasian Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Well, I know, but we never had the opportunity for that. I am finished with him though. Seems like too many games, I tried to be his friend and that does not work, so Im moving forward, not backwards. Good to make up your mind. I'm sure you'll find someone good for you.
LoveUrselfFirst Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Well, I know, bu we never had the opportunity for that. I am finished with him though. Seems like too many games, I tried to be his friend and that does not work, so Im moving forward, not backwards. Jeez it sucks that he was being so back and forth with you but that gives you further affirmation to just leave his crazy butt alone.
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