marc780 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I have known a couple people that did long distance. My ex. While i was living there. You dont want to know details. nevertheless, here are the cold hard facts. Fool 1 romanced her from 100 miles away. He was a reserve California Sheriff, 12 years older than she, and he and i never had any contact, as apparently we were both of sound mind at that time. This did not bother me much except for the inexplicable murderous anxiety that SEEMS TO ACCOMPANY SUCH ARRANGEMENTS as i knew what the result would be. I moved out, for 4 years, 2004 to 2008. To save money, I rented rooms from various nutbars. (I will live in my car rather than do this again). I was deeply in debt but somehowi juggled things (I gross 50 k but i am in California.). The Princess deemed me unworthy and that was that except i refused to realize it. I moved 3 times, renting one room after another. All of them seemed to get progressively more insane. I spent 3 years living in a rented house ($595) with 5 other guys in huntington beach, CA. Most were nic, one or two were 24 carot a holes. The latter stole me blind plus my canon camera, i posted a letter on t he house bulletin board threatening police and VOILA camera reappeared in my room. I tried net dating but no one appeared to take her place. She offered me solace, in my half owned condo, from time to time and that was sufficient for the moment (no sex involved - WTF was i thinking?). If any of the above makes you shake your head in wonder, you are right. Ditch the bitch. If you dump someone or get dumped, keep it that way. 3 dates and out is my rule. No woman on earth is worth the Hell i allowed myself to be put through. If and when you meet true love, you will know! YOU can and must be in control or at the very least, swept along.......the consequences are too huge to grasp and more importantly, best avoided! If a woman wants to bitch at YOU about being late, leaving the toilet seat up and her broken fingernail, DUMP HER! Believe me - You are better off negotiating with a whore than pleading with some psycho mental case of a woman. At least whores go away aterwards.
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Wow. Not sure what this has to do with LDRs, but I'm sorry you were put through such hell. Just because she was psychotic doesn't mean all women are. Don't let a negative experience such as this turn you sour. Take some time off from women - definitely. What a mess.
janey815 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 geez, yea im sorry you went through that. just stay busy and take some time to yourself
Lucky_One Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I couldn't even follow it - kudos to the two previous posters who somehow waded through and made some sense of it.
Bearandsue Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 I really could not decifer the code that was the original post. It seems(from what I could understand) You are going through a lot. Just pray(if thats your thing) and fight through. Problems only make you wiser and stronger in the long run
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