blk86 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 I'm a college student, and noticed this girl from a distant on campus. I pointed her out to my friend who was near by. He mention that he knew her friend and her. We went and talked with her friend. Then i got caught up talking with other friends around her, and a buddy of mine brought up past, dirty fling i had with girls.. (saying i slept with 4 girl within a week) which wasn't true. But i notice the girl blushed and snickered. It was time from class and some how we end up walk to the same but next to each other but we both never said a thing to each other. A few days later i saw her again at a party.(i was high and she was somewhat drunk) We talked and ended up laying bed and making out.. and talking some more, to get to know each other. We end up sleeping together (no intercourse just two people laying in bed sleeping). I woke up, and talked with her and got her number. I chatted with her through out the week but i get getting the vibe that she didnt like me.. It was Mixed vibes. But i told that i liked her, and she admitted that she like me and was interested what chemistry we have together so we planned on hanging out the next weekend (which was friday) she totally blew me off, but i brushed it away and told her to call me the next day... she never called, i text her at 11:30pm saying "hi" then she called lol! and told me she was going to such and such house for a party.. I told her that id meet her there. I dropped by and saw her, she gave me a Dirty look so i just walked by her like i didn't see her. i could tell she was looking at me but it was deceiving look. I noticed she was leaving and i was going to give her a hug, and she didnt want that so i walked away. As i walked away she got mad and said " your not even going to say bye" and i just said bye and walked off. I delete her number, and later that night she texted me saying that she didnt expect me to actually come. and i told her that she gave me a dirty look. She denied it and said she was surprised. I just told her to call me when she want to actually talk to me... and called it a night. What should i do? is she interested? Is she playing games? playing harrd to get... I'm confused.. It seems that we connected really well the first time we met. I open for opinions and suggestions THANK!
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Man, she's confusing. Seems to me like she's messing around. Like she's not even sure what she wants. Good luck with that one. It's up to you if you like playing games. Personally I'd pass this one up because I'm not into games, but who knows - maybe you like games.
Author blk86 Posted March 30, 2009 Author Posted March 30, 2009 SoulSearch_CO Man, she's confusing. Seems to me like she's messing around. Like she's not even sure what she wants. Good luck with that one. It's up to you if you like playing games. Personally I'd pass this one up because I'm not into games, but who knows - maybe you like games. Tell me About it....thats why i came here, i couldn't figure it out. But so far i haven't talk to her since saturday night which is only been a couple of days... and i dont plan on call her any time soon so i'll just see were it goes from there. But thanks for your input, atleast someone agrees that she's confusing!
Author blk86 Posted April 11, 2009 Author Posted April 11, 2009 Turned out that she missed me, and decided to text me. I saw here at school and she gave me a decieving look when i was with another girl.. to this date we don't talk much...
Zachary1 Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Hi, I have been through your post. Don't get messed up with such small things. I think it would be better if you have a talk with her. Express her what you actually want to convey and i think there would be a positive reply. Good luck mate.
colosseum Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 instead of what Zachary1 supposes, just dropping it altogether. She seems a bit conflicted, and who knows what kind of person she is. I'd just move on...but "to each his own." Best of luck to ya.
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