nblr14 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 My longtime girlfriend has been talking to an old friend who lives 2 states away for the past 4 months, he has broken up with his old girlfriend and has takenup talking(via text) to mine. They started out texting slow but now it has moved up to first thing in the morning and most every evening after work, after many months my jealous mind got the best of me. She left her phone at home one day by accident, so i read throught her texts and i found fantasy texts to and from him about having sex with each other, and her old ex boyfriend, it was way more than i was expecting to see. right now im not sure where i want to stand in the relationship, she has been confronted, and she say's she can try to change....i'm not sure what to do, im torn between two obvious decisions.
flash582 Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 She was cheating in her mind ..... the real question is why is she unhappy in your relationship. If you don't fix that problem, it will never last.
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Totally agree with Flash. The textual cheating is merely a symptom of a bigger problem. What is missing from the relationship for her such that she is seeking out attention from other men in this fashion? I'd definitely be sitting her down and talking to her about it. If she claims she doesn't know, then counseling might be in order. If you don't rip out the root of the problem, it will never change.
chrislovestosurf Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 She can "try to change?" Are you kidding me? your girlfriend is a disrespectful bitch. What should you do? What do you think you should do buddy? Stop being a pussy and dump her. I swear to god some of you dudes who come on here need to pull down your pants and check to make sure that your balls are still sitting underneath your dick. Man up.
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