le_caz Posted March 29, 2009 Posted March 29, 2009 my ex from months ago asked did i want to meet up sometime i agreed first of all she dumped me but we met up i was a lot more nervous than i thought id be, mainly because i forgot how good looking she was and it was 8 months since we last saw each other, however it felt awkward, maybe it was just because it was the first time. she said maybe we shouldn't be with each other because she was afraid all the old feelings would come back and asked me what i think, she said the next time we met we could be with each other probably cause it was awkward the first time meeting. we talked for a bit although it felt awkward, she asked did i want to stay in hers that night but told me nothing would happen we slept together and we cuddled together all nite when i took my arm away she asked me to put it back and wehn i turned away she rubbed my leg ect , i told her i loved her as a friend and she said i love you too. we didn't have sex i wasn't even sure i wanted to. she said we could meet in a week, and stay in hers, how should i progress we just broke up over distance involved but thats been made easier as i now drive (im 26 couldnt before for medical reasons). anyway as i drove back i realized how much i liked her even as a friend and will meet her in a week how should i act in this situation??, im starting to have the old feelings coming back. does she still like me?
Excellent Posted March 29, 2009 Posted March 29, 2009 I would think some old feelings are starting to resurface for sure. If she just wanted attention this would be taking it very far for just that. And if she just wanted sex she probably would have been more daring. Nevertheless, tread carefully, until you are sure about what her intentions are.
Author le_caz Posted March 30, 2009 Author Posted March 30, 2009 well to be honest im not sure if i even still like her, i want to meet her again to asses my feelings and be friends for a while first i want to ask her to meet up with out scaring her away, i mean she wants to be friends but whats the right number of times to meet a ex as a friend?
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