bluewolf17 Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 Hi, Just from a girls POV...your situation completly reminds me of an Ex I had-he felt the same way you do know (he told me for years and years after the break-up). What happend with me, was I was so mad, in the end, that it didn't work out. I was mad because I thought he was "the one" and when the relationship ended, I became irritated and did hate him a little bit for the things he did that (in my mind) ruined the relationship for me. I hated him for not being the person I wanted him to be, and for not giving me the happy ending I wanted so badly. I don't think it was so easy for her to move on, I am sure it was really truly hard. Even know when I see my ex, I still care deeply for him, and yet underneath all that, is a feeling of anger, but also of acceptance. I am truly sorry that you are still struggling with this. I know the feeling of being tired of the same time tested sayings, that seems so hollow to your situation. All I can tell you is that you loved (greatly) and you lost, and that's okay. You will love again, and this time around you will love harder, because you have experienced the grief of love. It makes you appreciate things more. You might always carry somthing for your ex, and that is okay too. Just learn from it, and bring what you have known to the next relationship. You sound like a decent and sincere guy, and I am sure you will eventually find someone, and neither of you will walk away. Take care.
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