Chrome Barracuda Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 A common misperception when a marriage ends is that the reason was because one person cheated. Forget ALL the dozens of reasons that led to cheating. Forget being neglected and untouched for several months. Forget lying in bed crying myself to sleep while my H talked and jerked off to other women on the internet. Everyone has a breaking point. Putting his hand on my back in bed expecting me to roll over and f him is NOT a form of "Trying" to work things out. When there's no communication on both sides, the blame is on both sides. You could have left before the cheating, no reason to act on your resentment. Cheating is like taking a dump on a person like, insult added to injury. Your an idiot to believe different. The truth is not overrated, but it does go a long way to being right in the head for the future. You have alot of issues lady... You really do. And I think other posters could agree with me when I say You need to seek professional help.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 That, I can wholeheartedly agree with. I'm very messed up. But alas, I have about two hours a week to myself and everything in this godforsaken city is closed at that time. So I accept myself as I am, love myself as I am, I'm a good mom, a good friend, have a great career and excel at other activities in my life. I'm happy, easy-going, but I fall in love too easily, I love sex way too much, I'm not a great communicator, I'm shy and not quite sure how to handle attention from men now that I have it. One of these days I just might get "caught" but I always have a backup plan. I don't answer to anyone, and I don't have to explain myself to anyone where my personal life is involved. But this thread isn't about me. I hope my MM tells his W the truth. I don't want him to end up like me.
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