The end.

[only the lonely]

Hello,

I am new to the Single Scene. I am at the "why me" stage. I feel numb.

I have 2 children one is under the age of 2. Career wise my life is fabulous! But homelife has not been too fabulous.

 

I entered a relationship with a man that I thought would be there for me through good and bad times. I feel pregnant and he told me to terminate because he did not love me. Termination is a personal choice and it is not something that I could do.

 

I have a child to another man. We are friend and there is no animosity between us at all.

 

My recent partner has shown low level violence to both my son and I. My daughter has not witnessed any of it.

 

For over a year his Mother has played a very nasty role in encouraging the separation. She has refused to talk to me and been very childish in all aspects. During this time I have been through endometrial cancer without support. Financially he has managed to cripple me as much as he can.

 

A few weeks ago he was arrested for assaulting me and was bailed to live at a friends house and not come near me.

 

He has left me with the mortgage payments and expects me to hold his belongings free of charge. He is also trying to gain access to my daughter which I have requested that he only see her on a supervised access visit for two hours due to the nature of his violence towards my son and I.

 

He is holding up the sale of the house by refusing to complete major outside renovations. He wants to come onto the property to complete them which is a breach of his bail conditions.

 

This man has been stringing me on for over a year, playing with my emotions, he was even sleeping in the same bed and with me up till 2 months ago until I kicked him out.

 

This is a man who is unable to stand on his own two feet and has to listen to nasty people.

 

As for the children and I. I feel greatly let down.I am supporting two children, working fulltime, mamanging a large house, dealing with family court issues and isolation. Sometimes it gets to you.

 

I still love him although I know that is madness but I am intent not to return to him. I feel cheated and let down by men in general. Why is it that people have to interfere and not allow people to work through issues together.

 

I guess I am just in need of reassurance that things will improve and that I am not alone in this world......going through this

[EmperorR]

Sorry for your situation, but you know you deserve someone much better than this, a Man should never ever ever raise his hand towards a woman

 

. Is his name on the house? if so talk to a lawyer.

[You'reasian]

Hello,

I am new to the Single Scene. I am at the "why me" stage. I feel numb.

I have 2 children one is under the age of 2. Career wise my life is fabulous! But homelife has not been too fabulous.

 

I entered a relationship with a man that I thought would be there for me through good and bad times. I feel pregnant and he told me to terminate because he did not love me. Termination is a personal choice and it is not something that I could do.

 

I have a child to another man. We are friend and there is no animosity between us at all.

 

My recent partner has shown low level violence to both my son and I. My daughter has not witnessed any of it.

 

For over a year his Mother has played a very nasty role in encouraging the separation. She has refused to talk to me and been very childish in all aspects. During this time I have been through endometrial cancer without support. Financially he has managed to cripple me as much as he can.

 

A few weeks ago he was arrested for assaulting me and was bailed to live at a friends house and not come near me.

 

He has left me with the mortgage payments and expects me to hold his belongings free of charge. He is also trying to gain access to my daughter which I have requested that he only see her on a supervised access visit for two hours due to the nature of his violence towards my son and I.

 

He is holding up the sale of the house by refusing to complete major outside renovations. He wants to come onto the property to complete them which is a breach of his bail conditions.

 

This man has been stringing me on for over a year, playing with my emotions, he was even sleeping in the same bed and with me up till 2 months ago until I kicked him out.

 

This is a man who is unable to stand on his own two feet and has to listen to nasty people.

 

As for the children and I. I feel greatly let down.I am supporting two children, working fulltime, mamanging a large house, dealing with family court issues and isolation. Sometimes it gets to you.

 

I still love him although I know that is madness but I am intent not to return to him. I feel cheated and let down by men in general. Why is it that people have to interfere and not allow people to work through issues together.

 

I guess I am just in need of reassurance that things will improve and that I am not alone in this world......going through this

 

How does Australian law handle divorce in terms of community property?