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A no is a no. And if you ever want to put your dingdong where the music comes from, you better learn this fast. Or else you might end up in prison-land, where people will put their dingdongs into a different kind of jukebox.

 

uummm yeah, if I were in prison I think getting rooted by some strange man would be the least of my worries.

 

Or I could short cut that problem entirely by not having anything to do with brain dead women who go out and get to drunk, or women that lead men on and then cry rape? They should look after themselves first and foremost the law should not be wasting valuable resources on those sorts of women that will not take precautions to protect themselves.

 

I've been in bed with girls who have at the point of getting naked decided 'no I don't want to'. I mean, I'm not about to force her to do anything but if you are going to play that game, and you get raped well tough luck in my opinion. Those girls play dangerous games. Inviting men inside so it appears there is going to be sex then turning it down.

 

Anyway for a dating forum this may'd as well be renamed to some sort of feminist forum because no has tried to help me other than to tell me to date an ugly woman. Then when I try to reason with you people and say that no one should date a person they're not attracted to, suddenly that makes me some sort of hypocrite.

 

Basically you can't win here, or be in the right unless you are giving the woman the upper hand. D-Lish you are more than likely an old washed up feminist has been thatg wasted her youth. You are going to continue to be alone until you face reality and stop hating men. Stop acting like you are 22, it is very sad to see an older woman try to be everything she was when she was younger. Stop it, stop it NOW.

 

The sooner you end the bitterness towards men the sooner you will find someone. I sincerely hope you, and others, start facing reality and get away from this strange fantasy land of a forum where your soft little femine issues are the dominant voice.

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Wow, I started off actually trying to help the OP. To get him to see how he can change his attitude and thinking so he'll find happiness in a relationship.

 

After reading his post about rape though... well, I dunno about you other ladies, but I'm through. Better not to even help someone like that. What if he actually takes advice and gets a girl interested in him? She'd be with someone who thinks that rape is a perfectly trivial thing... and if she gets drunk with him, she deserves it! :rolleyes:

 

No, BoredPerson, best remain as you are. At least that's a few less lives screwed around with, a few happier women.

 

Edit: Just read the post above. Well maybe if he does rape someone and is sent to jail and sodomized in there, we could all tell him it's just a soft feminine issue and he should deal with it! :D If he can still type, that is...

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Attractive women require less intelligence to get ahead in life. People also assume that they're not intelligent because of their looks. They're two seperate things.

 

Even if the manager assumed she was less intelligent he may still promote her based on looks because he is not making a fair and partial judgement in the first place so the perception of her intelligence need not matter.

 

What is more, most careers do not require a high level on intelligence but rather a staple level of intelligence and interpersonal skills take over from there.

 

OK whatever. there are so many holes in that post, I can barely bother to respond.

I won't be getting ahead in my career because of my looks- my boss is a woman.

 

So anyway, I agree 100% with what D-Lish says, and before you say anything derogatory and accuse me of being a bitter feminist man hater, I am one of the women on this "little forum" who is actually happily married. So there.

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I've been in bed with girls who have at the point of getting naked decided 'no I don't want to'. I mean, I'm not about to force her to do anything but if you are going to play that game, and you get raped well tough luck in my opinion. Those girls play dangerous games. Inviting men inside so it appears there is going to be sex then turning it down.

Can't say this has ever happened to me. You must be doing something wrong.

 

Basically you can't win here, or be in the right unless you are giving the woman the upper hand. D-Lish you are more than likely an old washed up feminist has been thatg wasted her youth. You are going to continue to be alone until you face reality and stop hating men. Stop acting like you are 22, it is very sad to see an older woman try to be everything she was when she was younger. Stop it, stop it NOW.

Well I certainly hope you don't say this sort of thing to people in real life. If you do, that's your problem right there. So you're publicly ripping on other members in a thread where you ask for advice? People are still willing to help you, even when you act like a total jackass. I can see this getting locked down shortly. Like I said earlier, your attitude is pure ****. I'm no longer going to beat around the bush with what I say to you, because clearly you aren't listening to me or anyone else. The problem is your attitude. It's as simple as that. You seem very selfish, and claim these things are "done to you". Wake up and stop taking the victim mentality. Sheesh.

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Women talk about rape too much. Like men are supposed to care. Rape is the most over dramatised crime that there is and I am so utterly sick of hearing feminists talk about it.

 

You know what it does ? It detracts from the seriousness of the crime, when the crime is infact violent and serious.

 

People think (myself included) of some situations that do not demonstrate the seriousness of the crime. You get drunk and end up having rough drunk sex that you didn't want ? Well you shouldn't have led him on.

 

You get attacked in a park by a knive weilding rapist. Different story, victim of crime. But the amount and the way women talk about it makes it into a complete joke that no one really takes seriously apart from feminist groups.

 

1/4 of women are raped ect, bla, bla, bla out of the feminist hooting about the crime of rape.

 

Yes, it is traumatic for the woman but the who bloody world doesn't need to here about it constantly.

 

You know what else is traumatic ? Getting stabbed in stomach. Talk about that instead of rape.

 

So if you got raped by a guy, you wouldn't think it was a big deal? Yeah right. Even if you didn't care much, ever heard of HIV and STDs?

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Couple of things to mention -

 

1. If a woman is drunk the law says she is unable to give consent for sex. So having sex with a woman who is drunk is opening yourself up to potential accusations.

 

2. The guy posting this thread doesn't want to hear anything anyone has to say apparently. He's just pissed off. No point in trying to reason with him.

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Couldn't possibly be your attitude?

 

 

 

Mmmmm.....okay, if you say so. :rolleyes:

 

Because you've yet to have any success, you've grown desperate. You've yet to get to know any women for real, so women are becoming less and less human to you. It starts to feel like they "do it to YOU" on purpose. You grow more bitter and more desperate making it even less likely you will remedy the problem you're having.

 

If you are growing bitter towards women for not looking past your "ugliness", why do you feel okay about not giving "ugly" females a chance?

If YOU won't accept an physically ugly person, why are women harpies for doing the same?

 

I completely agree here. If you won't give these so called "ugly" girls a chance, what makes you think anyone will give you a chance? My only advice for you is to get a better mind frame. May I ask what you think is so "ugly" about you? Weight, skin tone, teeth? All those things can be fixed over time but it is much harder to change one's mind frame and way of thinking.

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I went out to see some bands with a friend. They were metal bands and there were so many hot girls !

 

I hate life sometimes. Because I will never be able to have sex with any of them. They're so nice and sexy and friendly but I'll never get them because I am an ugly person !

 

I'm so low on the attractiveness scale the only women I can get are so unattractive you wouldn't WANT to have sex with them :(

 

I thought having a good career would help, well it doesn't ! They don't care. Maybe if I have lots of money ?

 

This sucks. I don't even need to have a hot one just one that is attractive.

 

Hate @ being unattractive.

 

I've not read through all of the topic so I'm not sure if this has already been said. But surely if you were as unattractive as the girls that you find too unattractive you would find them attractive?

 

If you don't find them attractive, then maybe that means that on the attractiveness scale you're more attractive than them, and you can get better looking girls.

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The Op's ugliness is way more than skin deep--his contempt for women is so apparent that maybe he needs to find a nice boyfriend. Oops I didn't mean to offend any gays here.

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Don't listen to people's false promise. (' oh jonny it's ok, you seem very nice, someday you will eventually find the ONE' hahahaha)

 

sometime it's better to hear brutal opinion.

 

Confidence is the key?? then decent looking janitor guy could date a model.

that's not confidence, that's just ****ing retarded believin that way

 

yeah if you can't imagine yourself standing with her, she won't probably be interested in you.

you can still develop yourself as far as looks, style, speech manner etc.

At least doing those are better than sitting and complaining about yourself.

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BTW, when some females try to give you sweet comment 'it's ok johnny, you are a good person' , Ask them if they will consider dating you.

 

It will pretty answer your situation. People say bullsxit when it's none of their business.

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This guy is still whining about how ugly he is and how hot girls won't give him a chance. :rolleyes:

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I'm a woman and I'm unattractive as well. I understand how you feel on that point.

 

HOWEVER, you're saying some really cruel things about women in this thread. You've said that we're "harpies" and that it's "typically female" not to care. So do you want to be with one of us or not? I could never be with a guy who says those sorts of things about women!!

 

With women ITS ALL ABOUT MONEY AND POWER. They can cry and deny all they want.

 

I have never cared even a little bit about either of those things. What I care about is kindness, ambition, joy, and a sense of humor. Just because I have a vagina doesn't mean I feel exactly like everyone else with a vagina and that we all have the same opinions. Does everyone with a penis think exactly the same? Because I was under the impression that they didn't, that men -- like women -- were individuals.

 

women that lead men on and then cry rape? They should look after themselves first and foremost the law should not be wasting valuable resources on those sorts of women that will not take precautions to protect themselves.

 

WHOA. I don't even know what to say to that. Does that mean that if a woman goes to a bar and gets slipped a date-rape drug, it's her fault for going to a bar? This is one of the scariest statements I have ever seen on LS. Totally not okay. There's a movie called The Accused that I think you should watch.

 

These women here, trying to pressure me into dating an unattractive woman. You can rape a woman without touching her if you put her under pressure it is considered rape.

 

I recommend you talk to a woman who has been raped sometime. Ask her if being forced to have sex at knifepoint is the same as a guy pressuring her for a date.

 

D-Lish you are more than likely an old washed up feminist has been thatg wasted her youth. You are going to continue to be alone until you face reality and stop hating men.

 

So let me get this straight. As I see it, feminism is the belief that men and women are equal. So if a woman believes that, she's "washed up" and has "wasted her youth" and hates men? I'm a feminist. Some of my favorite people in the world are male. I have made many mistakes in my life, but in no way whatsoever did I waste my youth. So am I "washed up?"

 

Can you understand, even a little bit, how bizarre it is to be accusing women right and left of hating men, and trashing us simply on the basis of our gender, and then saying we deserve to be raped, EVER, under ANY circumstances? Does that mean it's okay if I assume all guys are rapists?

 

By the way, having seen pictures of D-Lish, I can assure you she's young and VERY hot!

 

Stop acting like you are 22, it is very sad to see an older woman try to be everything she was when she was younger.

 

Right, because once we get past 22, we're "washed up." Are you really, honest to god, being serious about this? It just sounds so insane and 1950s and naive and laughable!

 

This thread is the most blatantly woman-hating thing I've probably ever seen on this site. Do you really think that if you met a woman and told her that a) being a feminist meant she was a man-hater, b) she deserved to be raped, c) she would be less attractive and "very sad" when she got older, d) she was a harpy, and e) because of her genitalia she was incapable of caring, that she'd do anything BUT run for the train?!?

 

Women talk about rape too much. Like men are supposed to care. Rape is the most over dramatised crime that there is and I am so utterly sick of hearing feminists talk about it.

 

Wait, what was that you said about the inability to care being "typically female?"

 

I have a friend who was raped by her stepfather from the age of 6 until she was 16 and finally found the courage to tell someone. It was her school principal, and he helped her get out of her home and stop being raped. Are you saying he shouldn't have cared? Should he have told her to just go back home and have sex with her stepfather and stop being dramatic?

 

I also had no idea that feminists were the only people who talked about rape. You sure are talking about it a lot. Are you a feminist?

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truth is a guy can date a woman who is better looking by carrying higher education, higher paycheck job etc.

you will see cute couple (good looking boy and girl) till college. But after that you see those beautiful woman with daddy looking guys.

they will dump those model looking guys with no future career and go for guys who can provide better

 

If you are woman and ****ing ugly, sorry there is no cure (wait, women here cares about inner beauty right? so you can still date fat, short, acnes all over faced guy as long as his personality is great? LOL)

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