Ocean-Blue Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 You aren't going to be attractive to any decent men until you love yourself. You don't have to settle for married bosses, you can set your sites higher than that....but you have to love yourself, first. Right now, you are not painting an attractive picture of yourself to others....because you don't love or even like yourself. You're totally right. Without self love, it's all pointless. BEG, you have a lot of issues you have to work on. Either you venture out looking for Mr. Right being the way you are OR you focus on yourself and let it happen when you meet someone you click with...either way, without accepting that you have issues and working on them, you're facing a mighty task.
SunnyJulie Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 I have tons of friends who got married at 30 or after. Raise your standards, honey. Thirty with a beating heart is setting the bar too low. J
mental_traveller Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 FWIW I met someone who's just turned 30, and (touch wood) it's easily the best relationship I've had. I'm in my early 30s. Before we got serious, I had dated and was in touch with quite a few attractive women in their 20s. 25 and 30 are just not that far apart, so other factors are much more important. If the connection is strong enough, you have to be quite a bit older than a guy for him to not be interested. If my gf was 40 I'd still wanna be with her. 35+ is only an issue if the guy wants kids IMO.
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