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Im not sure how but I've grown into a very shy, meek and depressed individual. I (try to) hide it with light humor especially with my friends and co-workers but I'ts making it impossable approach women. Add to the mix I go to an all boy school and don't get out much and you've got an idea of what Im like (lonely). Tomorrow I have a chance to meet girls, how can I approach a stranger and get a date for prom before the day ends? :(

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Hope I'm not too late.

 

Listen, I grew up really shy as well because I had crappy self esteem (made me wanna hide myself and never talk). I realized this way of living was... not living at all.

 

But I'm sure you have friends that you talk to. Any girl you see, try to make light conversation with her and see how it goes. Even if she's not interested, so what? You tried and that's what matters, and sooner or later you'll succeed. Sometimes we need practice.

 

Just don't put women on a pedestal. They are human too and they also have fears of rejection, etc. Treat them with respect and don't be a pushover.

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