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Argh so see previous thread if you want fuller story but basically guy friend screwed me around and used me and led me on and i fell for him then he ended it.

 

I know i dont want to be with him anymore - I keep telling myself why would you want to be with someone who treated you like that? And i know it would never work out between us particularly since he told me that he never liked me in that way.

 

But still i think about him quite a lot and I keep thinking back to times we shared together thinking about things he did that make me think he liked me more than he said.

 

I feel ok most of the time now (i went through a period where i was really screwed up about it) but just thinking about him and his new girl stabs me in the heart. Ill see them on messenger at the same time and know that they are chatting and think about how he used to do that to me at the start and i wont be able to think about anything else. All the things he does with her he used to do with me.

 

So basically I feel so conflicted, i dont want him but this new girl drives me crazy. I dont know what Im going to do when I see them together which I will have to do.

 

How can i tell my heart to stop doing this?!? Its driving me crazy, classic head says NO heart says YES. Can anyone give me some insight into why I am feeling like this and how i can overcome it. I am usually a much stronger person but for some reason this tiny thing has really screwed me. Maybe I was caught at the wrong time or maybe I just feel betrayed because I thought he was a good friend

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Why do you have your ex and his new gf on messenger?? DELETE!!!!!

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