whambar Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Long distance relationship. Both started out wanting casual, bit developed feelings. She stayed in control. I didn't. I fell for her big time. Then she went on holiday, evaluated our situation and dumped me. Came up with all sorts of bulls*** excuses saying I've done nothing wrong etc..it's only her that has changed. She isn't ready for a relationship. Admittedly she told me this from the start - we were both fresh out of long term relationships when we met 9 months ago. We have spent two weeks communicating. I have been trying to get answers and my understanding is that I became too serious and scared her off - in other words I wasn't a challenge & she became less interested. I know I annoyed her with my texts but I never once asked her to take me back. I was just trying to understand. She told me she wanted to take a break from communication & I said fine because I didn't want to push her away any more. I said we could remain friends but really I know this will be difficult. During all of this there has been no anger or nastiness. Now after she suggested a break in communication, the very next day I get a text to say she has sent me my birthday present at last. I haven't replied. It arrived today and I don't know what to say or do. Should I read anything into this or just take it that she is seeking some validation and trying to make herself feel better? Should I just say 'thanks' by text & leave it at that?
Lippy2 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 So she's the one who wanted no communication but then text you and sends you a present. I would send her a text that says Thanks! That's it nothing more. Then let it be.
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