Lucky555 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 We dated about a year ago he had issues to deal with...living arrangements and a lot going on. I know he has not been in relationship or anything. I broke things off because I needed more from him than what he was giving and obviously not able to give. Fast forward to now he is contacting me more and more. Its like hes feeling his way around or something. It appears he has taken things slow in the beginning where he contacted me once for a week then increased that by now talking to me a lot this week. Its gradual. I know he is the type of guy that doesn't put himself out there and waits because he does not want to be rejected. He is also trying to talk about things that he knows i find valuable in men i date. We do know each other pretty well. He has told me before, I hope you can tell when a guy is interested. I didn't know how to take this comment either. What does this mean coming from a guy??? So should I just let him continue contacting me and then ask me out if thats what he wants to do that? I don't have a problem with him talking to me or anything I'm still going to date other people and live my life I'm not falling for any guy till I know he is really wanting to invest in a relationship. What do you all think?
Author Lucky555 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Posted March 28, 2009 Does anyone have any thoughts? Should i just not even waste my time talking to him?
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 He sounds interested, just shy. If you're the patient type, then just keep the door open. Guys aren't great at taking hints, but really in his case I'd just keep dropping hints/signs that I'm interested as well and let him take the lead.
Author Lucky555 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Posted March 28, 2009 thanks soul search. I am glad someone else was able to help me out here. I am good at helping others see when a guy is interested but i never can see it myself. I'll be patient. thanks
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