MsPrada Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 I dont know if anyone has been following my story but..my MM is overly jealous and controlling..(he is not married, but has a live in exGF). We have been in NC for 2weeks..he went on vacation to Aspen and i found out today he had a terrible encounter with a tree while skiing and he nearly died so i broke NC today and called him..He told me he has been thinking about me non stop and that when he had was sedated after having reconstructive surgery on his face he kept saying "Tell Msprada I'll be ok" repeatedly (reported by the surgeons)..and he also told me he had a private eye and stated everything that ive been doing lately while out..and he also had some guy (who i didnt even know he knew) contact me from an unknown number asking me all kinds of personal questions and making sexual advances via text message..as if he were trying to set me up! I love him dearly..but could this possibly get deadly?
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 This is the kind of behavior that only escalates. I don't know about 'deadly' but I can guarantee you this guy will make your life a living hell.
Chrome Barracuda Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 You reap what you sow. Stay with him, I hope he seriously starts to let up and not be more parenoid in the future. I mean he's seeing people following him, it must be real, Right?
Billie63 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 ..he went on vacation to Aspen and i found out today he had a terrible encounter with a tree while skiing You see? Even the tree didn't like him. Get rid now!!!!
bentnotbroken Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 You would think if he had a near death experience he would want to straighten up and fly right, yet he continues to act an azz. Seems to me, the nut job is the least of your problems.
Meaplus3 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 If he's controlling and jealous then why would you even want him? I say run for the hills here and fast. Mea:)
Lizzie60 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Huh??? he's not even married.. and you're the OW.. does he have kids?
Owl Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 So how do you feel about him having a PI stalk you while he's away, giving him reports of your activity? Would you NOT consider this kind of obsessive, possessive, destructive behavior a "deal breaker"?????
Lizzie60 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 I think this guy is full of baloney.. PI..my eye...
angie2443 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 and he also told me he had a private eye and stated everything that ive been doing lately while out..and he also had some guy (who i didnt even know he knew) contact me from an unknown number asking me all kinds of personal questions and making sexual advances via text message..as if he were trying to set me up! I love him dearly..but could this possibly get deadly? Yes, or he will hit you and break your bones or something just as bad. I hardly know your story, but when someone exibits this behavior, they don't think of you as a human bieng, they see you as an object to control and posess.
whichwayisup Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 What is it that you love about this guy? He's cheating on his ex with you (I doubt she's his ex, though that's what he wants you to believe) and still living with her.. I doubt this 'accident' happened and the PI stuff, well, that's just freaky...As for some guy texting you etc, I bet it was your MM. You really need to think about getting help so you can end it and stay away from him. This guy is bad news.
2sure Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 You know what? I have to tell you this sounds just too far fetched.
GorillaTheater Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 You know what? I have to tell you this sounds just too far fetched. I'll second that. Seems to me, from this and other threads, that the Prada gal is the one obsessed. With drama. Whether real or fictional.
Lizzie60 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Me too... I agree.. it's a little too farfetched ...
bentnotbroken Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Let's make it unanimous. The threads are too sensational and off the beam.
Author MsPrada Posted March 27, 2009 Author Posted March 27, 2009 Wowww i guess it does seem to be all made up..i wish it were..hes a great guy just has some bad qualities If its not an obsession its a deep infatuation..His ex GF is moving out as soon as she finds her own place. The only reason i posted about the situation was to see if anyone else had gone through anything similar with a MM.
Athena Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Yep, I too have expressed my disbelief that MsPrada seems to be racking up the Millionaire men (and in this economy too, wow) and Far-fetched or good imagination or whatever aside, MsPrada -- perhaps the reason why the live in xg/f wouldn't talk to you and give you any information about Mr Wonderful is that she is too scared to? Perhaps he controls her by money/violence/threats whatever... why are you attracted to a man like this? Is it his money, or his character (dangerous man).
Athena Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 For what its worth, I searched all Aspen news for all ski accidents in March and it didn't come up with anything like your OM's accident... since you wrote on March 23rd in a previous thread that OM had left two weeks earlier for a ski vacation in Aspen, I checked the entire month of March. The only man to be involved in a tree accident in Aspen was March 6th, and he died. Do you think your OM may have made the entire incident up? Creepy... And -- if he does show up with fresh surgery on his face, then perhaps he was involved in something other than a ski accident, maybe a drunken fight?! I would be very wary if I were you, something doesn't quite add up here.
bentnotbroken Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 For what its worth, I searched all Aspen news for all ski accidents in March and it didn't come up with anything like your OM's accident... since you wrote on March 23rd in a previous thread that OM had left two weeks earlier for a ski vacation in Aspen, I checked the entire month of March. The only man to be involved in a tree accident in Aspen was March 6th, and he died. Do you think your OM may have made the entire incident up? Creepy... And -- if he does show up with fresh surgery on his face, then perhaps he was involved in something other than a ski accident, maybe a drunken fight?! I would be very wary if I were you, something doesn't quite add up here. Or his wife kicked his assests.
Athena Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Or his wife kicked his assests. ha -- but anyway, OP claims he isn't married, but has an ex-girlfriend (who had left, but came back to his 6000 ft beach house... a huge house... only to sleep in HIS bed... wow, all that house, but no space for her to go sleep somewhere else? and no sex either...) She also claims her first man (her H) was 45 years old, and this man (OM) is 40 years old, yet in another post says OM is 50 but looks 40...
Author MsPrada Posted March 28, 2009 Author Posted March 28, 2009 ha -- but anyway, OP claims he isn't married, but has an ex-girlfriend (who had left, but came back to his 6000 ft beach house... a huge house... only to sleep in HIS bed... wow, all that house, but no space for her to go sleep somewhere else? and no sex either...) She also claims her first man (her H) was 45 years old, and this man (OM) is 40 years old, yet in another post says OM is 50 but looks 40... My OM told me he was 40 and the truth recently came out that hes 50...but i believed him because hes really does look 40..but me and him have reconciled and talked on the phone for 10 hrs today and i love him and I'm content :bunny:
bentnotbroken Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 My OM told me he was 40 and the truth recently came out that hes 50...but i believed him because hes really does look 40..but me and him have reconciled and talked on the phone for 10 hrs today and i love him and I'm content :bunny: And there you have it. Next....
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