hollisterbaby Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 if a guy is in a realationship then he goes online and subscribes to dating websites,but doesnt act on anything is that considered cheating?is it just the man seeing what is out there or is there a particular reason why men go on these sites?
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Sounds like some pretty serious window shopping and I'd consider it to mean there are some problems in the relationship. I'm not sure I'd call it CHEATING, but I certainly would not be happy about it and would have a little chat with him. If it's a new development and not something that he's had up since before the relationship (the online profiles), then I'd say that's definitely a problem. If he couldn't come up with a REALLY damn good reason, I'm thinking a break-up would be coming his way, and how.
D-Lish Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 I'd consider it intent to cheat. If they are doing it to see what else is out there, they aren't happy with what they have currently, end of story.
collegekid491 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Its not cheating. Honestly, I don't know your bf, but I have done this myself with a group of the guys for a contest of who could get the most tells in a week lol. Completely harmless, funny, and great bragging rights! Some guys go for, as mentioned, to window shop. Which generally is because of discontent or possibly even to know they still... got 'it'. Ultimately, ask. If he attempts to hide it from you or gets defensive when you bring it up, trouble.
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