Citizen Erased Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 this thread has run its course-and off course. seems like the op has recieved answers to his/her question. time to move on Yes Sir!
Woggle Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 So are all attractive guys posers as well? It's not possible that beauty and character can infuse in the world? You have to be one or the other? Hot and shallow vs ugly/average and charming? That's all there is? That's too bad. Only ugly people can be smart- all hot people are shallow...I get it. It's a very reasonable and logical argument. Attractive and smart are certainly possible but women with the princess syndrome usually have only look to offer. They look good but they will eventually drive a man up the wall. Usually attractive women with other great things offer are the type who don't even concentrate all that much on their looks plus the inner beuty actually enhances the outside. A woman can look like a supermodel and still be ugly if she is that way inside.
CommitmentPhobe Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Some people really do need to get a grip I can't imagine going down the pub with some of you guys, talk about a downer. I can just imagine sitting in the corner, my energy being drained while you whine incessantly about the opposite sex. It happens pretty much every time I come on here. I really don't know what alternate universe some people are living in, there's a huge diversity of people so many cool women around that I don't know how people can go on and on and on complaining about "women" all the time.
Trialbyfire Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Attractive and smart are certainly possible but women with the princess syndrome usually have only look to offer. They look good but they will eventually drive a man up the wall. Usually attractive women with other great things offer are the type who don't even concentrate all that much on their looks plus the inner beuty actually enhances the outside. A woman can look like a supermodel and still be ugly if she is that way inside. What's wrong with princesses? We're entitled to everything. Don't be jealous, Woggle. Admit it, you secretly want to be a princess.
Trialbyfire Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Everyone has a princess inside of them, especially Woggle! It's a freeing experience to come out. Shuck the societal collars that hold you down!
Sam Spade Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Gosh, I am not looking for anything close to perfection. I just want someone I connect with, has the same values and that I am attracted to and takes my feelings seriously. I have been attracted to all types. From stereotypically not so hot guys to stereotypically hot guys. And have also been turned off by stereotypially hot guys and not sterotypically hot guys. By the way, I would take 5'7 Jon Stewart over 6+ Brad Pitt. How about Jimmy Stewart? :love: Much better IMO.
burning 4 revenge Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Thats the most appropriate avatar youve ever used Princess should be your screen name
Trialbyfire Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 I've been called Princess, more than once in my life! I'm Daddy's little princess.
Sam Spade Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 My girlfriend has a princess syndrome, which would be irritating in general, but it is perfectly callibrated in her case. She expects a lot, but never demands it. She's submissive, but will not tolerate being treated badly. Etc. Perfect (so far ; Oh, and she's not American .) Militant instances of the pricess syndrome can signify major emotional issues, however. As in "I'm such a mess, that I really need a prince to rescue me". This is more sad than irritating.
burning 4 revenge Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 I've been called Princess, more than once in my life! I'm Daddy's little princess. You seem like a Princess. I think you may be her ladyship the royal Princess of British Columbia in disguise
burning 4 revenge Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 My girlfriend has a princess syndrome, which would be irritating in general, but it is perfectly callibrated in her case. She expects a lot, but never demands it. She's submissive, but will not tolerate being treated badly. Etc. Perfect (so far ; Oh, and she's not American .) Militant instances of the pricess syndrome can signify major emotional issues, however. As in "I'm such a mess, that I really need a prince to rescue me". This is more sad than irritating. Is she Latin American?
Trialbyfire Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 You seem like a Princess. I think you may be her ladyship the royal Princess of British Columbia in disguise I'm glad you've finally figured it out. It's not something I try to hide.
burning 4 revenge Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 I'm glad you've finally figured it out. It's not something I try to hide. Your adorable combination of elegance and arrogance gives away your royal pedigree your Ladyship
Sam Spade Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Is she Latin American? Asian (though 2nd generation here). Also, i think that girls from richer families surprisingly demonstrate lesser sense of entitlement than girls from less well-off backgrounds. I guess "aspirations" can get in the way of being a sane human. Of course, I may be singing a different song if/when she starts busting my balls about kid's private tuition. (That's why i rushed to disclose early on how little, by some standards, I make ).
Trialbyfire Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Your adorable combination of elegance and arrogance gives away your royal pedigree your Ladyship Why thank-you, darling! I changed my avvy to something that looks like me a little more, at least with current hair-colour, etc. I can see that you also have an inner prince. It's refreshing to see someone who's allowed their inner prince to shine through. Everyone should feel entitled. Oh, hang on, I see one now! Sam Spade, I can also see that you've embraced the inner princess in you too. Much of what you say isn't terribly realistic so I can only draw that conclusion from current and historical posting. You know I'm right!
Isolde Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 I don't mind it when guys want to complain about their dating life, because sometimes we all need to vent. But I draw the line where they begin blaming women for not settling with a "decent man." You need to be compelled by someone, in a way, to make a relationship feasible in the first place. Even there, where romantic compatibility is self evident, relationships are hard. How are we supposed to stop at decent? (truly puzzled here)
Isolde Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 I don't mind it when guys complain about dating (we all need to vent sometimes), but I draw the line where they groan that women should just be happy with a "decent guy." If being decent was all that was necessary in a relationship, this board wouldn't exist. Even where both partners are compelled by one another to a degree, where romantic compatibility is self evident, relationships are hard. Why would anyone think that being a good person is enough to make you compatible with everyone? (genuinely puzzled here)
Trialbyfire Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 I also scratch my head at the concept of mercy dating.
Isolde Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 I also scratch my head at the concept of mercy dating. But then again, we ARE princesses, so I guess we sorta don't really, like, understand the world, and the universe, and the things in it, ya know? -Isolde la Princesse (where is my Tristan?!?!?!)
Sam Spade Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 I don't mind it when guys complain about dating (we all need to vent sometimes), but I draw the line where they groan that women should just be happy with a "decent guy." If being decent was all that was necessary in a relationship, this board wouldn't exist. Even where both partners are compelled by one another to a degree, where romantic compatibility is self evident, relationships are hard. Why would anyone think that being a good person is enough to make you compatible with everyone? (genuinely puzzled here) Being a good person and having nice behind is definitely enough for me .
Sam Spade Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Everyone should feel entitled. Oh, hang on, I see one now! Sam Spade, I can also see that you've embraced the inner princess in you too. Much of what you say isn't terribly realistic so I can only draw that conclusion from current and historical posting. You know I'm right! Only partially true. Yes, I've discovered the inner princess in me, brought her out in broad daylight, and then beat her into pulp . True story.
Sam Spade Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 Your adorable combination of elegance and arrogance gives away your royal pedigree your Ladyship No, arrogance is never a lady-like (or gentlemanly) quality .
burning 4 revenge Posted March 28, 2009 Posted March 28, 2009 (where is my Tristan?!?!?!)hes supposed to be injecting a daschund, but if i know him hes chatting up some lass later hell be down at the Black Bull with James and Siegfried waiting for me and Taramere to swing by
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