mental_traveller Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Guys.. if you don't like it 'bare' down there.. all shaved to the skin.. I would recommend that you trim it down really short.. plus if you shave your balls or/and your butt crack, use hair conditioner.. it is extremely soft on the skin, doesn't burn.. I never use shaving cream there.. I use a good thick hair conditioner.. my skin is baby soft.. as long as it's squeaky clean and smell good.. it''s all good.. and yummy. Well that's a first. I have to admit, no woman has ever asked me to shave down there, or even mentioned it. Is this a North American thing?
mental_traveller Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 I second that In reply to the thread, I've been fairly staunch in my stand against anything hairy. A guy has to have a good grooming regime to get me attracted, or at least be kempt in their appearances. Call me picky or extremely harsh, but I am intolerant towards hairy backs and asses. Even if it's genetics, there is an invention called laser hair removal. I want to date a man, not a cave man. Yeah but why would any man want to do that, when the majority of women prefer us to look natural? No guy ever got dumped because he refused to get laser hair removal.
mental_traveller Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Usually I am thinking when I see him naked: Omg, I hope he doesn't notice that *insert body part* and how it jiggles Omg, I hope he likes my boobs Maybe I should turn around...my butt is better..yeah I should turn around Omg, stop staring there dude Omg, look at that adorable little trail of hair from his belly button Omg, does my hair look alright, Omg, I hope he likes when I do this Omg, I didn't give my feet a pedicure Omg I forgot to floss Omg, I wonder if he is thinking about another woman right now I never knew he had a mole there Haha, so many OMGs and that's before you even get down to any action!
D-Lish Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Yeah but why would any man want to do that, when the majority of women prefer us to look natural? No guy ever got dumped because he refused to get laser hair removal. I've been pretty put off my some wild out of control man bushes. I like it trimmed up. The majority of the women I talk to about it like a nice trimming as well. Most of the guys I've dated have kept it neat and trimmed. Completely natural??? That's when you get hair caught between your teeth or lodged in your throat. No thanks- get out the weed whacker and get 'er done.
Trialbyfire Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 the snake..its like this damn disease in mens body to feel the urge to become a belly dancer/ snake on a woman and get on top of you then start moving like a snake, really akward and kills the mood. at least my mojo dies. lol it kinda looks like the motion you do when your gonna hurl and you bend over to stop it but keep cocking your head. so difficult to explain its one of those gotta see things. i know every woman over the age of 25 ha had at least one guy pull a snake on them. I'm a woman over 25 and still don't completely understand what you mean unless you're talking about good ol' fashioned missionary.
PinkKittyKat Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Usually, "OMG this is so hot, we're gonna have sex!!!" Sometimes I am amazed by moles etc. I also like to look at nipple colour, size, the line of muscles... just be amazed by how different the male body is. On the subject of hair, I was with one guy that shaved his pubes entirely off but a stripe, he HATED body hair of all types and required me to be shaved as well. At least he was consistent. I'm not exactly a FAN of hair, I'd never go, "Oooh baby, I wanna run my hands through your shaggy back hair!" But it's never a problem. I sort of like to "pet" it. My current bf hates body hair. Unfortunately for him he is very VERY hairy. He was shaving his entire body before we even started dating. He used to get his back waxed every month at the salon. The first time we were naked together he APOLOGIZED IN ADVANCE because he hadn't had time to go to his waxing appointment! I told him not to worry about it! He is currently getting laser on his back. He shaves his chest, shoulders, back, armpits, bum, genitals and legs. And yes, even his buttcrack! Sometimes he needs my help getting everywhere. THAT'S LOVE, MAN! Shaving your man's crack. Strangely enough, he doesn't care if I have hairy legs/pussy/armpits/etc. I never let it get bad or anything, but he really doesn't give a crap. He just hates hair on himself.
loser101 Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 honestly it takes me a few minutes before I start looking at his body properly, I'm usually so excited about having sex. I feel the guy up several times before going to bed so I kinda know how atheltic he is already. I only notice the hair if he doesn't trim it at all but it doesn't bother me much. I am well over 25 but have absolutely no idea what 'snake' moves evampr18 refered to
sultry33 Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 lol funny thread.. 1st time im just thinking f me.. guess after a while may notice if not too neat down there.. or under arms dont like lots of hair .. but some is nice.. not bald though on a guy its bit strange to me. body odour is def not nice.. personally on me i hate hair..
runner Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 yea i'm curious what this snake thing is all about. sounds like a cross between a porno and a saturday night live skit.
EllieBean Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 If he was naked, I'd probably be naked too, so I'd mainly be thinking: I hope I don't look too fat. I'd probably check out his skin for acne, and notice how much body hair he has, and of course I'd be curious to know how many inches he was packing (not that size would make any difference, just out of curiosity). But I'd probably be too concerned about how I looked to check him out in any great detail.
D-Lish Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 THAT'S LOVE, MAN! Shaving your man's crack. That's very true. I would also do that for a man I loved:love:
serial muse Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 lolol. nono missionary is missionary and a snake is a snake. i need to find a clip or something online and post the link. I want you to know that I went straight to youtube to look. Kind of tough because I'm not sure exactly how to do a search for this one. Mostly I found movies of actual snakes having sex. I do know what you mean, though...I've experienced the "snake" before.
MindoverMatter Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Are you talking about a reversed snake trap? Usual snake trap would be woman sitting on top of man, both hold the feet of the other and the woman slightly rocks forward and backward. Not very good penetration, more like a weird foreplay, if you aks me. Never orgasmed from it.
serial muse Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 If I'm thinking of the same thing evampr is, it's more of a modified missionary - but with a high unsexy wriggly, ants-in-your-pants kind of motion. Yowza! Not.
samiam143 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I like clean cut and good hygeine. My guy doesn't have to be completely shaved but he must be at least trimmed. And no back hair. Other than that I'm just a touchy feely kind of person. My bf now has such soft skin I can't keep my hands off of him
BubblyPopcorn Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Shaving, trimming etc, has no affliation with obsession. Just like brushing your teeth. It's a matter of taking care of your body. No, some are just obsessed with their you-know-whatsies.
Trialbyfire Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 If I'm thinking of the same thing evampr is, it's more of a modified missionary - but with a high unsexy wriggly, ants-in-your-pants kind of motion. Yowza! Not. I am so not in this loop! Maybe I've never been snaked before! Maybe I'm lucky! :laugh: Making out in any position tends to have a rhythm to it, be it adagio or presto, culminating to a crescendo, whether mixed with forte or not! Wriggling isn't a term known in music.
Queen of Hearts Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I never compare a man to other guys or exes... I like to see what he looks like.. naked.. I will definitely have an opinion on the size of his penis..too small, too thin, too thick, too large, etc.. I will definitely check if he's well groomed around his genitals.. (this is important to me)... I will definitely check if the guy is hairy (back, chest, legs, etc.), not that important but interesting.. The only time I will refuse to see him again is if his penis is too small... he's a bad lover, despite everything else... or if his hygiene is not up to my standards... other than that.. it's fine. instead of rewriting it, I am just going to say, "Me too."
gonewiththe_wind Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I'd compare sizes with my exes LOL.. not that it matters.. but its just interesting
BobSacamento Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I use a beard and mustache trimmer down there lol
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