chrissreef Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I saw the other thread about what men think about when they first see a woman naked so I have to ask the opposite...what do you ladies think the first time you see a man naked? Compare to ex's? notice flaws or look for certain good/bad characteristics? What about years into a relationship?
loveslife Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 If it's a guy I like, I tend to think, wow, I'm going to have sex! We're finally going to do it! (I tend to wait a while for the first time.) If it's my friend's husband being totally inappropriate flashing me, I think, what a loser.
Lizzie60 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I saw the other thread about what men think about when they first see a woman naked so I have to ask the opposite...what do you ladies think the first time you see a man naked? Compare to ex's? notice flaws or look for certain good/bad characteristics? What about years into a relationship? I never compare a man to other guys or exes... I like to see what he looks like.. naked.. I will definitely have an opinion on the size of his penis..too small, too thin, too thick, too large, etc.. I will definitely check if he's well groomed around his genitals.. (this is important to me)... I will definitely check if the guy is hairy (back, chest, legs, etc.), not that important but interesting.. The only time I will refuse to see him again is if his penis is too small... he's a bad lover, despite everything else... or if his hygiene is not up to my standards... other than that.. it's fine.
manugeorge Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Let's see ...what do I think?. "dang, that's it"? I kid I kid.not really. I do evaluate his size, grooming habits and how toned his body is. Years into the relationship, I don't think anything unless something is off. By that time I would have seen him naked so many times and the familiarity would have set in.
loveslife Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Yeah, I think the only thing that would bother me is if he had poor grooming habits. But then you can kinda get a sense of that before you get to the goodies.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Its hilarious seeing no male posters on this thread attacking female posters for their preferences and opinions.
loveslife Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Its hilarious seeing no male posters on this thread attacking female posters for their preferences and opinions. Yeah, I don't think guys like to touch the subject of their member with a ten foot, er, pole! And by the way by grooming habits I meant hygiene.
climbergirl Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I never compare a man to other guys or exes... I like to see what he looks like.. naked.. I will definitely have an opinion on the size of his penis..too small, too thin, too thick, too large, etc.. I will definitely check if he's well groomed around his genitals.. (this is important to me)... I will definitely check if the guy is hairy (back, chest, legs, etc.), not that important but interesting.. The only time I will refuse to see him again is if his penis is too small... he's a bad lover, despite everything else... or if his hygiene is not up to my standards... other than that.. it's fine. Exactly my stance. Noted, but not compared. However, my guy asked permission to keep his socks on. That was weird. Not that I would have noticed before, but now I'm thinking he has f'ed up feet.
Citizen Erased Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 No words exactly run through my head, it's more of an overwhelming sense of... :bunny::bunny::bunny:
Die Hard Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I never compare a man to other guys or exes... I like to see what he looks like.. naked.. I will definitely have an opinion on the size of his penis..too small, too thin, too thick, too large, etc.. I will definitely check if he's well groomed around his genitals.. (this is important to me)... I will definitely check if the guy is hairy (back, chest, legs, etc.), not that important but interesting.. The only time I will refuse to see him again is if his penis is too small... he's a bad lover, despite everything else... or if his hygiene is not up to my standards... other than that.. it's fine.I really appreciate this post, Lizzie. I don't groom my genitals since I had a bad episode where i went too far and shaved it all and then it burned like all hell for days, but since you posted this I think I'll try again. I do shave my chest sometimes but it's because it grows in uneven and too thin, so I like the way my chest looks shaved better. I figure the ladies would too if they saw it with the uneven growth. No hair on my back so I'm good there, but seriously, thanks for the genital grooming tip. I'm gonna sport a groomed member next time and see what happens.
moman Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 How do women define hygiene? And what about body hair? Shaved? Define groomed in genital area.
Alan430 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 How do women define hygiene? And what about body hair? Shaved? Define groomed in genital area. Yeah curious too, expecially grooming the genital areas. Its a bit harder for men to groom then women i would think.
Citizen Erased Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Figures this thread would turn into "how should I shave my balls?"
Die Hard Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Just be careful man. I have not forgotten the burning and itching that went along with shaving it, and if you screw up, the temptation is there to take it all off and start over. The burning and itching that went on was ungodly.
Lizzie60 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Guys.. if you don't like it 'bare' down there.. all shaved to the skin.. I would recommend that you trim it down really short.. plus if you shave your balls or/and your butt crack, use hair conditioner.. it is extremely soft on the skin, doesn't burn.. I never use shaving cream there.. I use a good thick hair conditioner.. my skin is baby soft.. as long as it's squeaky clean and smell good.. it''s all good.. and yummy.
climbergirl Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 How do women define hygiene? And what about body hair? Shaved? Define groomed in genital area. I personally like body hair. But trimmed is a good thing, not shaved. Hygiene=shower and wash everywhere.
GorillaTheater Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Figures this thread would turn into "how should I shave my balls?" I refuse to shave my balls. Any woman who refuses to accept my hairy crotch instead of appreciating the whole package is just shallow. And superficial. And, er, stuff.
Lizzie60 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Just be careful man. I have not forgotten the burning and itching that went along with shaving it, and if you screw up, the temptation is there to take it all off and start over. The burning and itching that went on was ungodly. Did you shave without cream or anything.. just the blade on your skin?
Trialbyfire Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 No words exactly run through my head, it's more of an overwhelming sense of... :bunny::bunny::bunny: Same here! Although the overwhelming need to touch, taste and feel are there.
Lizzie60 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I personally like body hair. But trimmed is a good thing, not shaved. Hygiene=shower and wash everywhere. Me too.. I'm not crazy about baby's skin.. I like it rough a bit.. Shower/wash everywhere.. every little pleats...
lord alfred douglas Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I trim with scissors like once a month but its scary
Die Hard Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Guys.. if you don't like it 'bare' down there.. all shaved to the skin.. I would recommend that you trim it down really short.. plus if you shave your balls or/and your butt crack, use hair conditioner.. it is extremely soft on the skin, doesn't burn.. I never use shaving cream there.. I use a good thick hair conditioner.. my skin is baby soft.. as long as it's squeaky clean and smell good.. it''s all good.. and yummy.How can I get it bare without it itching and burning until it grows back in? Would hair removing cream work better instead of a razor? I'm just scared to death of the burning and itching again.
Lizzie60 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I refuse to shave my balls. Any woman who refuses to accept my hairy crotch instead of appreciating the whole package is just shallow. And superficial. And, er, stuff. It's not too bad if the balls aren't too hairy.. but I hate to get those little hair between my teeth..
Die Hard Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 oops I didn't see your other post Lizzie. I used shaving cream and a razor
Lizzie60 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 How can I get it bare without it itching and burning until it grows back in? Would hair removing cream work better instead of a razor? I'm just scared to death of the burning and itching again. Well.. like I said, if you don't like the itching.. just trim it down real short.. that will be awesome.. I hope you'll post a pic.. so we can help you more with the 'length' of the trim..
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