Hurting. Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Before i start, i've asked 2 girls out before with success, and it's felt right! However, i'm into this girl now, it's so obvious we both like each other, teext each other, have alot of laughs at our college sit near/next to each other, talk a lot, and talk online a hella lot. And i'm really happy with the way it's going, i find her fun and have a lot of fun around her, it's just... i don't know how/ or if i even should taken it further by asking her out or something? At moment, it don't feel right to ask her out? I just have a feeling it could ruin the current relationship we have! How should i go about this? i don't want to hang on for ever until its too late, but asking her now, just doesn't feel right? :/
PrincessPeach Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Just kiss her! Seriously. Then it will be right (or wrong) and you won't be worrying about it or not. The moment you think you should wait to do something is usually the moment you should just act and do it.
EllieBean Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 I have to admit, when I was younger I would get asked out by guys I liked and I'd say no because I was too shy to say yes! The first boyfriend I had was the one who didn't ask me out, he just kissed me
collegekid491 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Just kiss her! Seriously. Then it will be right (or wrong) and you won't be worrying about it or not. The moment you think you should wait to do something is usually the moment you should just act and do it. umm... ok... I may be the only one, but this sounds like a bad idea. Its a good way to make everything awkward if she's not expecting it! Although I gotta comment on the 'feeling right' thing... if it doesn't feel right then why are you even contemplating this? I will tell you why, because its not doubt, its fear, just cowboy up and ask her like a man. Heck... if you don't you will only regret it and wonder about what could have been.
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