TrivialPersuit Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I thought long and hard about even posting about this. I have a friend or he was my friend. We used to talk all the time. He was one of my confidants. He and I stopped talking last year and I couldn't understand why. I was crushed beyond words. This person has meant everything to me. My husband and I were talking yesterday and he told me that someone else had told him that I invited said friend into our home for a quick rendevouz. I had NEVER done such a thing. I am so crushed now (even more so than before) that this was said about me as I didn't say this. I don't get how this "friend" could say this. Part of me wants to believe that it wasn't said and person in the middle is making it up? I don't know. Person in middle was someone I had looked up to for a very long time. Now I did tell friend that I thought he was wonderful, smart, handsome and that I can't see how he would have troubles finding another mate being that he is fresh out of a divorce for a few years. That was stated because that is truly how I feel about person. Do I find him attractive. You betcha! Did I ever say "come on up and have some wild sex with me". HELL NO! I am just floored this was even said. I just feel that perhaps someone said something to him to get him to stop talking to me and of course something was said to me to get me to not want to talk to him much either. I feel so played out. This isn't the first time with person in the middle whom I loved and trusted. I told my spouse that I didn't say that at all. It is only natural to say those things (the above statement about him finding a mate) because, well it's true. He really is a wonderful person and I have admired him, his work, etc for years and years. I just feel as though I have been played yet another time by middle person. It's really eating at me today.
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